"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Returning to the Pack

Oni

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Well eversince summer, I took a leave from all my school's friend and went to kick it with my group of close friends who go to another school. There were multiple reasons for doing so:

1) I'm sick and tired of the bs and fake people in my group.
2) I want to create a sense of mysteriousness for this one girl i had my eyes on in the group. I didn't want to get too close to her so i left.
3) This is my last summer before college, i want to spend my time kicking with my group of close friends whom have always been there for me to begin with.
4) I need to take time off them to find ways to improve myself as a person.

Now I feel like I'm ready to return. My friends they have been constantly nagging at me for why arent i hanging out with them, especially the girl i had my eyes on. The only reason I am going back now is to get the girl. What should i do? I'm trying to see if anyone here has a brilliant idea on what to do now that i am in an advantageous position.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Contender

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Stop f*cking around, and go get her. You don't need a brilliant strategy to win her... she either likes you, or she doesn't.

Implement everything you learned here about the right mentality and everything, and go with it. Just enjoy your last summer.

Just relax, and you'll see how easy she comes to you.
 

Brooxy

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Well i say, take your fourth point. Definately take some time off an dmake yourself a better person. Find out about yourself and other people. Use this great source of the High school bible and figure out about your friends and this girl. Get the girl if you want her. It looks like she wants you. Most of all make yourself happy my friend. Good luck.
 

Jerky Boi

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You can always hang out with your old friends and your new ones. I just graduated from high school about a year ago in 2005 and I hardly ever see any friends I've had from high school so I'd keep pretty close ties to the ones you've had for a while( the ones who've stuck around the longest). As far as the girl goes, get her man! She misses you because you're not around anymore. "Hmm..so Jerky, you're saying that chicks will go after you when you're not as available?" Yes sir! Sounds like you're in a good position for some good C&F with this chick and considering it's summer, you should spend as much time with your friends and the girl as possible.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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