"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Returning to the Pack

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Oni

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Well eversince summer, I took a leave from all my school's friend and went to kick it with my group of close friends who go to another school. There were multiple reasons for doing so:

1) I'm sick and tired of the bs and fake people in my group.
2) I want to create a sense of mysteriousness for this one girl i had my eyes on in the group. I didn't want to get too close to her so i left.
3) This is my last summer before college, i want to spend my time kicking with my group of close friends whom have always been there for me to begin with.
4) I need to take time off them to find ways to improve myself as a person.

Now I feel like I'm ready to return. My friends they have been constantly nagging at me for why arent i hanging out with them, especially the girl i had my eyes on. The only reason I am going back now is to get the girl. What should i do? I'm trying to see if anyone here has a brilliant idea on what to do now that i am in an advantageous position.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stop f*cking around, and go get her. You don't need a brilliant strategy to win her... she either likes you, or she doesn't.

Implement everything you learned here about the right mentality and everything, and go with it. Just enjoy your last summer.

Just relax, and you'll see how easy she comes to you.
 
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Well i say, take your fourth point. Definately take some time off an dmake yourself a better person. Find out about yourself and other people. Use this great source of the High school bible and figure out about your friends and this girl. Get the girl if you want her. It looks like she wants you. Most of all make yourself happy my friend. Good luck.
 
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You can always hang out with your old friends and your new ones. I just graduated from high school about a year ago in 2005 and I hardly ever see any friends I've had from high school so I'd keep pretty close ties to the ones you've had for a while( the ones who've stuck around the longest). As far as the girl goes, get her man! She misses you because you're not around anymore. "Hmm..so Jerky, you're saying that chicks will go after you when you're not as available?" Yes sir! Sounds like you're in a good position for some good C&F with this chick and considering it's summer, you should spend as much time with your friends and the girl as possible.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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