Alright, here's the scenario. There's this girl. We interact on a pretty friendly/flirty level most times we're together. I've initiated very light kino (touched her back, shoulder) on her a couple times which she responded positively to. Tonight, we were sort of kidding around and she hit my arm lightly (and held it for a second) with her hand. A little later, we were goofing around again and she kind of hit me on the chest. These were the first times she has initiated any physical contact with me. Both situations were very light natured, not hostile. I'm just wondering what to make of all this? Was this her form of kino? Or was she just doing what any girl would have done in these types of playful situations?
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Returned kino?
- Thread starter mrmoe
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englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
Sounds like she likes you
Originally posted by mrmoe
Alright, here's the scenario. There's this girl. We interact on a pretty friendly/flirty level most times we're together. I've initiated very light kino (touched her back, shoulder) on her a couple times which she responded positively to. Tonight, we were sort of kidding around and she hit my arm lightly (and held it for a second) with her hand. A little later, we were goofing around again and she kind of hit me on the chest. These were the first times she has initiated any physical contact with me. Both situations were very light natured, not hostile. I'm just wondering what to make of all this? Was this her form of kino? Or was she just doing what any girl would have done in these types of playful situations?
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Master Don Juan
If you're attracted to her, make a move.
I have yet to see her lay a 'friendly smack' on other guys. She's friendly with them but doesn't act as playful. And there's actually one HUGE reason I'm hesitant about making any further moves...she is in a LTR. I've generally tended to stay away from girls in relationships. I do like this girl alot and want to keep her around... but for now, I'm just trying to gauge her interest level for ego's sake. Its been great practice, so all has not been wasted.
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She's been waiting forty minutes.
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yeah man, i say just just keep teasing, increase the flirting and do MORE kino. Make her FEEL IT! Play with her emotionsOriginally posted by mrmoe
I have yet to see her lay a 'friendly smack' on other guys. She's friendly with them but doesn't act as playful. And there's actually one HUGE reason I'm hesitant about making any further moves...she is in a LTR. I've generally tended to stay away from girls in relationships. I do like this girl alot and want to keep her around... but for now, I'm just trying to gauge her interest level for ego's sake. Its been great practice, so all has not been wasted.