Alright, here's the scenario. There's this girl. We interact on a pretty friendly/flirty level most times we're together. I've initiated very light kino (touched her back, shoulder) on her a couple times which she responded positively to. Tonight, we were sort of kidding around and she hit my arm lightly (and held it for a second) with her hand. A little later, we were goofing around again and she kind of hit me on the chest. These were the first times she has initiated any physical contact with me. Both situations were very light natured, not hostile. I'm just wondering what to make of all this? Was this her form of kino? Or was she just doing what any girl would have done in these types of playful situations?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Returned kino?
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