“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Returned kino?

mrmoe

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Alright, here's the scenario. There's this girl. We interact on a pretty friendly/flirty level most times we're together. I've initiated very light kino (touched her back, shoulder) on her a couple times which she responded positively to. Tonight, we were sort of kidding around and she hit my arm lightly (and held it for a second) with her hand. A little later, we were goofing around again and she kind of hit me on the chest. These were the first times she has initiated any physical contact with me. Both situations were very light natured, not hostile. I'm just wondering what to make of all this? Was this her form of kino? Or was she just doing what any girl would have done in these types of playful situations?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sounds like she likes you

Originally posted by mrmoe
Alright, here's the scenario. There's this girl. We interact on a pretty friendly/flirty level most times we're together. I've initiated very light kino (touched her back, shoulder) on her a couple times which she responded positively to. Tonight, we were sort of kidding around and she hit my arm lightly (and held it for a second) with her hand. A little later, we were goofing around again and she kind of hit me on the chest. These were the first times she has initiated any physical contact with me. Both situations were very light natured, not hostile. I'm just wondering what to make of all this? Was this her form of kino? Or was she just doing what any girl would have done in these types of playful situations?
 

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same thing has been happening to me lately as well...

I suggest you observe her around other guys and see if she treats other guys the same

You can base your final decision on that.
 

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I have yet to see her lay a 'friendly smack' on other guys. She's friendly with them but doesn't act as playful. And there's actually one HUGE reason I'm hesitant about making any further moves...she is in a LTR. I've generally tended to stay away from girls in relationships. I do like this girl alot and want to keep her around... but for now, I'm just trying to gauge her interest level for ego's sake. Its been great practice, so all has not been wasted.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJnoob

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Originally posted by mrmoe
I have yet to see her lay a 'friendly smack' on other guys. She's friendly with them but doesn't act as playful. And there's actually one HUGE reason I'm hesitant about making any further moves...she is in a LTR. I've generally tended to stay away from girls in relationships. I do like this girl alot and want to keep her around... but for now, I'm just trying to gauge her interest level for ego's sake. Its been great practice, so all has not been wasted.
yeah man, i say just just keep teasing, increase the flirting and do MORE kino. Make her FEEL IT! Play with her emotions
 
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