I somewhat agree with this. I think it's more of a balance between the two. I think the article was referring to the extreme metrosexuals. There's nothing wrong with dressing nice, working out, smelling good. You shouldn't just roll out of bed and smell like shyt. I'll briefly explain what happened to me when i completely changed. I used to be that narly, "I don't give a shyt" kind of guy. Did I pull a$$? Barely. Then one day I just sort of woke up and was fed up with being a loser. I found this site, worked on my inner game, lost 20 lbs, got a new haircut, got new clothes...and the result was unbelievable. I couldn't even believe the difference, it was like night and day. I don't ramble on, but these things aren't necessarily metro, they are just simple things one should work on.