"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Retaliate Help Me

Water_Man

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Ok I read here that its bad to retaliate against a woman for rejecting you. I of course would never do that. My situation is very different and I wonder what have you guys done in a situation like this.

I met this girl last year and we messed around. Then all of a sudden she cut contact with me. I am about 100 percent sure it was because of her over sized friend. Now to this day her over sized friend will toy with me by making comments about the woman that I was messing around with.

Now it's the fat bitachs turn to be fuxked with!! What can I do, and would you guys do the same thing? She is messing with my life and NOBODY is going to mess with my life like she has.

The only thing I can think of is to take her out on a date about a hour away from here and leave her axx there. I am sure she would go out with me because she is desperate for a boyfriend and that may even be why she screwed things up between me and this other woman because she was Jealous.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MindOverMatter

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Why bother? It's obvious this chick has a low self-esteem and will never be able approached by a guy half your caliber, so why bother? Be the big man, ignore them both and move on with your life. These vindicative games are beneath you.
 
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Don't waste your time man, forget about her. There's nothing you can do to get back at her, unless you fvck her and dump her. But if she's unattractive then you better take a vomit-bag with ya. Anything you do to mess with her head will just make things worse. Just ignore the biatch.
 

slipstreamer83

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From my personal experience, low self-esteem girls are a big problem if you are into one of them.

There was this girl that was interested in me, but her friends made her stop thinking about me. Then, one of her fat, ugly friends approached me, but I rejected her. The ugly one still wants me today, but I keep rejecting her.

Leave the low self-esteem girl and get something better for you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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