"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Retaining Muscle Mass Question

DJBen

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I spent the last 36 hours in hospital with a dodgy appendix. First they thought kidney, then appendix, then a random stomache problem. Either way, it's hard enough to sit for long peroids of time, let alone get up and jog/lift weight.

Over a 2 week peroid, eating less than usual [abdominal pain causing vomiting on occasion] what would you experienced guys say a:

5'9
174lbs
ROUGHLY 12% bodyfat

guy would lose (muscle wise)?

This. ****ing. Sucks. :mad:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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no worries benny. You've gotten your body there, you're intense, and you're training hardcore.

You'll be sick for a bit, I predict if you use the same weights, your reps might go down by 2 or 3.... however, after your sickness, hit the weights hard and eat hard, and you'll start packing on muscle.

Your body will realize it's recovering from weakness, and will be in a prime position to jumpstart itself.
 

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Hope so. Aparently I should be expecting to eat twice a day, and maybe throw one of them up. Not at all good for feeding my body ;\

Ah well. Either way, I now have some meds that'll make me throw anyway. AWESOME! :rolleyes:

You guys will just have to put an extra 10% in for me ;)
 

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My appendix outright exploded a few years back, I now have a nice 2" scar on my abdomin. I've heard that because of such surgery there is no way I could EVER have a 6-pack now, anyone know if that's true?
 

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I doubt that.

Give it a go. If not, you'll just look ripped. Either way, it's a win win situation.

That sucks man... and thats pretty dangerous to have it explode. What were you doing and how did it feel when it happened?

I hear it's usually taken out by keyhole these days, unless it's pretty ugly in there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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