"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To get my mind off a woman I foolishly lost and to look better for the sake of replacing her (secretly to win her back), I am throwing myself into lifting and getting in ridiculously good shape... Both mentally and physically. This is my journal to track progress and have a form of accountability. Input is appreciated since this is my first time really getting serious.


Starting stats:
Age: 28. Look like 23.
Height: 6'0" Terrible posture and weak back muscles.
Weight: 170.4lbs. Always been close to scrawny. Certainly not impressive.
Body fat: 14%. Most around abs, none on arms or legs

Diet: fast food or nothing. Sodas. Typically feel like crap.
Mental state: Depressed. No self esteem. Introverted. No close friends. Jealous of others often. Rarely make eye contact. Nervous and worried what others do and think.
Prospect with women: zero


Goal:
Age: 29 How many months will this take?
Height: 6'1". Posture and lower back strength
Weight: 200lbs. I'd look like a new man, which I'm good with
Body fat: 9%. don't know what this should be. Trainer says it is doable

Diet: whole foods. No junk. Stuff the makes me feel well. Water water water
Mental state: confident. A bit of an ego. Extroverted. Close friends and to be gregarious with all. Self assured.
Prospects with women: women trying to pick up for once

As you can see, I want to track the mind and body during this personal growth.

10/10/13 First personal training session today. Pointers: eat often. Eat whole fruit for snacks, almonds, tuna salad, chicken, brown rice.
Start on the treadmill just to get blood pumping. Very little cardio for me.
Focus on legs. 2 to 1 ratio for legs to upper body. Mornings do a body weight routine for whole body. Various running stretches.
Push-ups, planks, leg raises (idk what it's actually called on back keep legs 1ft off ground as long as possible), various squats, sit-ups in circuit to form failure, 3 sets.

Areas to focus on in afternoon workout:
Arms- biceps, triceps, forearms
Back- shoulders, deltoid
Chest- chest and abs
Legs- quads and calf

The trainer suggested deadlifts and squats are most important.

Now, tear this to shreds or give sage advice. I am changing my life!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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He's a novice, so he doesn't understand what is realistic, but he will be able to recomp pretty well as long as his diet is sorted out.

What routine has your trainer given you David?
 

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Unfortunately we didn't get to that... Free intro. I have yet to meet the actual trainer I'll be with. I'm looking for some guidance on beginning since it'll be a week until then. I need to get busy and won't wait a week.

The body fat vs weight is the target. I'm sure the body fat will vary while adding 30lbs of muscle.

I should add that I'm not after certain strength benchmarks. Maybe that is a goal you pick up along the way? I'd like to fill out my frame so it looks healthy and clothes fit like they should.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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im down today so ill make it short:
Find your way.your own way.today i overheard a discussion which reeked of mediocre empty crap.they were showing off their college degrees.dont be like them.dont waste your life on sh!t that doesnt matter.
Embrace your fears,question everything and find ur true self.

You dont need bodyweight exercises as a beginner.keep to freeweights and avoid the machines.
 
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