"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Results Of The MEGA-FIELD !

ashman1

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Was'up Fellow DJ's !

not too long ago i told you guys that i was going into the mega field
on a trip .

so , here is the results of my First sarging attempt :
Well, I made a lot of approaches , about 30 .

and got some pretty good results. i only approached HB7-9s
and some 3-6 sets .

there was this one HB9 i saw , standing by herself . i noticed that she was wearing an odd color it was a hot pink type color , fushia it was.

and i went with it , ( 3 second rule ) I said : " excuse me , but i couldent help noticing , that is an interesting color you're wearing ,

She said : " oh , yeah . "

I said : thats fucshia, is'nt it , that is a very hard color to cordinate but
i think you're pulling it off nicely .

She said : oh ,wow, thank you .

I said : My names , nate

She Said: Im Camille, ( its a little loud, so she has to lean in close , so i get in a little kino here )


I said : so , are you from around here ?

She Said : yeah, im from lakeside.

I said : is that close to downtown? , i dont know cleveland, im from pittsburgh .

She said : yeah , its not too far from downtown .

I said : you know what , me and my friends are going out to this awesome club tonight , you should come !

She said : oh yea that sounds like fun, but ive already got plans for dinner tonight, with my grandma

I said : oh okay, . . .

long story short, i number & hug closed , she also let me take a picture of her . she was starring into my eyes as we talked, there was kino , and eye contact , even threw in some false time constraints.- the convo went well .

heres where it gets weird ... two days later i sent her a txt message,
saying : " hey it nate , from pittsburgh, i wish i could have had one more chance to 2 see u again, but i had to leave for home early , but you can call me or txt me anytime , holla back luv, - nate .

havent heard anything from her since . - what the hell went wrong ?

anyway , i made 4 more number closes and one of them txt me the other day about how she wants to get together soon .

so how'd i do for my first time out ? - N:cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sandow

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Thats actually a pretty good job. That one interaction with cleveland babe was good. However, the text wasn't. First off, get used to girls not replying to texts. For whatever reasons girls are notorious for flaking. Your in a bad situation with this girl because you live in pittsburgh. Chances are slim you guys will meet up soon or anything will develop between you two. Also, never say "I wish" ever! Not even in a text. It sounds desperate. Also, never put the ball in her court, like "text me sometime." Chances are they wont. You need to make things happen instead. And lastly, never end in 'luv". I don't think I need to explain that one.

Your interaction was good, but remember, try not to come off needy. Make your texts unique and less often. Trust me you'll stand out if you do this.
 
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