"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Results Of The MEGA-FIELD !

ashman1

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Was'up Fellow DJ's !

not too long ago i told you guys that i was going into the mega field
on a trip .

so , here is the results of my First sarging attempt :
Well, I made a lot of approaches , about 30 .

and got some pretty good results. i only approached HB7-9s
and some 3-6 sets .

there was this one HB9 i saw , standing by herself . i noticed that she was wearing an odd color it was a hot pink type color , fushia it was.

and i went with it , ( 3 second rule ) I said : " excuse me , but i couldent help noticing , that is an interesting color you're wearing ,

She said : " oh , yeah . "

I said : thats fucshia, is'nt it , that is a very hard color to cordinate but
i think you're pulling it off nicely .

She said : oh ,wow, thank you .

I said : My names , nate

She Said: Im Camille, ( its a little loud, so she has to lean in close , so i get in a little kino here )


I said : so , are you from around here ?

She Said : yeah, im from lakeside.

I said : is that close to downtown? , i dont know cleveland, im from pittsburgh .

She said : yeah , its not too far from downtown .

I said : you know what , me and my friends are going out to this awesome club tonight , you should come !

She said : oh yea that sounds like fun, but ive already got plans for dinner tonight, with my grandma

I said : oh okay, . . .

long story short, i number & hug closed , she also let me take a picture of her . she was starring into my eyes as we talked, there was kino , and eye contact , even threw in some false time constraints.- the convo went well .

heres where it gets weird ... two days later i sent her a txt message,
saying : " hey it nate , from pittsburgh, i wish i could have had one more chance to 2 see u again, but i had to leave for home early , but you can call me or txt me anytime , holla back luv, - nate .

havent heard anything from her since . - what the hell went wrong ?

anyway , i made 4 more number closes and one of them txt me the other day about how she wants to get together soon .

so how'd i do for my first time out ? - N:cool:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sandow

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Thats actually a pretty good job. That one interaction with cleveland babe was good. However, the text wasn't. First off, get used to girls not replying to texts. For whatever reasons girls are notorious for flaking. Your in a bad situation with this girl because you live in pittsburgh. Chances are slim you guys will meet up soon or anything will develop between you two. Also, never say "I wish" ever! Not even in a text. It sounds desperate. Also, never put the ball in her court, like "text me sometime." Chances are they wont. You need to make things happen instead. And lastly, never end in 'luv". I don't think I need to explain that one.

Your interaction was good, but remember, try not to come off needy. Make your texts unique and less often. Trust me you'll stand out if you do this.
 
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