"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Restraining orders and coronavirus

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I did a search on the State court database for the past two days and noticed a huge increase of protective orders, warrants of arrest and court cases on domestic violence just in the past two days. Some could be legit and yet others are falsehoods, made up or seeking revenge. I have a friend who is a local cop and he told me yesterday that a number of men are being kicked out of their homes due to a high level of restraining orders during this pandemic crisis.

Stay safe brothers, learn to read the signs and do not engage or escalate the situation. Tempers are high now, depression is setting in, people are hopeless, in panic and so forth. Most important, have a plan during this coronavirus pandemic as to what happens to you, if something was to happen such as a restraining order plus false accusations. Do you have a place to stay if kicked out, money, food, transportation, medical etc and make sure your important documents are in one place. It's also time to start documenting everything and a very good idea to record what you can using a camera or voice recorder. In my experience, whoever reports and files a restraining order first, wins and has a jumpstart in the eyes of cops and judges.

I am happy it's just me and my kids in my house and we are having a goofy wonderful time during the "stay at home State orders" It's a blast with the kids not having cupcake around and feel pity for those men who have to put up with all the crap.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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False claims might increase, but I know for sure that legit claims will increase. It's incredible how normal everyday life suppresses the issues lurking right beneath the surface. I don't know how it is where you are, but where I'm from there's a significant increase in divorces when summer vacation hits. Staying at home most of the time really puts to the test how compatible the relationship is, when there's no escape.

These issues can't directly be attributed to the virus outbreak, they existed before that time, staying at home with their partner for an extended time only brought them into the light.

You'll also have the people who enjoy each others company and will get to work reproducing, because what else is there to do than stay at home and fvck, right?
 

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I've been making homemade beef jerky in some of my spare time and sharing it with close people. I just asked my dog if he is planning on getting a restraining order on me for eating it in front of him and not sharing with him.. His answer "Nope". So I'm good.
 

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Is there no law against false accusations?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There is in most Western countries, but I think you already know that.
Of course I do.

So how does a man defend against being bullied by women that's supposedly loves them ?
 

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The virus is real.

The overreacting is a classic example of girl power running a muck in society.

A virus that eliminating the least productive in society lol. Mother nature is a cold hearted bastard. It is coinciding with female nature especially in top form smv.

The way you see women reacting to their rights to murder babies is the same emotional response we have in mother nature. Indifference.
 

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The virus is real.

A virus that eliminating the least productive in society lol. Mother nature is a cold hearted bastard.
True. There's no denying it.

In the distant past, events like this will be brushed aside as people back then are used to it, the harshness of their life is but a normality - people back then are realistic and pragmatic.

With a much pampered and privileged society now, an addition would exist at 2 ends of the spectrum, one that underplays it and another that overplays it.

Such is life in the modern era.
 

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The virus is real.

The overreacting is a classic example of girl power running a muck in society.

A virus that eliminating the least productive in society lol. Mother nature is a cold hearted bastard. It is coinciding with female nature especially in top form smv.

The way you see women reacting to their rights to murder babies is the same emotional response we have in mother nature. Indifference.
Yep the least productive in society have had it coming for a long time. It's RESOURCES IN = RESOURCES OUT with society. Since we live in a society where everyone gets to eat regardless of how much they contribute, if one person slacks then someone else has to make up for it somewhere. That could be in a work setting where one person slacks and their coworkers have to eat it. Or it could be in a more general sense where I am working and paying for people on food stamps to eat for free. Well, guess what? The people making up the slack are tired and out of capacity, which leaves the slackers in a real pickle. As someone who has worked at 110% since he was 12 years old, never been on public assistance, never had any coworkers have to wipe my azz at a job so I could blend in and look productive, I find what's going on now with slackers highly funny.
 

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Yep the least productive in society have had it coming for a long time. It's RESOURCES IN = RESOURCES OUT with society. Since we live in a society where everyone gets to eat regardless of how much they contribute, if one person slacks then someone else has to make up for it somewhere. That could be in a work setting where one person slacks and their coworkers have to eat it. Or it could be in a more general sense where I am working and paying for people on food stamps to eat for free. Well, guess what? The people making up the slack are tired and out of capacity, which leaves the slackers in a real pickle. As someone who has worked at 110% since he was 12 years old, never been on public assistance, never had any coworkers have to wipe my azz at a job so I could blend in and look productive, I find what's going on now with slackers highly funny.
Sasha day game is going on about the mark of the beast. It is a revelations reference. I am in several meditation spiritual woo-woo groups. The group is freaking out about 1. Virus 2. Mark of the beast digital vaccine by Bill gates 3. 5g.

Its not good fellas. I attend since I have a absurd ego. I enjoy meditation. It cleanses me to execute in biz. Bonus, it's all women lol! At the risk of sound like a crazy guy, I honestly think it's a plague.

There's far too much psychopathy, female murdering babies, and blatant evil. The pandemic is due to the fact that it is in all probability bio warfare. Whether intentional or not, it is irrelevant. If I had to guess, I suspect that it was stupidity on STERIODS. Who knows?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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