"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Restaurant with Parents

Anguy

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I am a server at a fancy restuarant. Every night I see a lot of cute and hot chicks eating with their whole family.

What is the best way to talk to those chicks?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey, I did exactly the same at weddings and there family is like a wall of **** block and you'd just look weird if you just went and talked to them.

There is no best way you've got to have luck and jump at every opportunity you get to talk to them which is still very rare as you've probably noticed.

It's like looking at a bunch of good looking chicks on the other side of the river but there's no bridge! it just plain sucks
 

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Analyzeit said:
Hey, I did exactly the same at weddings and there family is like a wall of **** block and you'd just look weird if you just went and talked to them.

There is no best way you've got to have luck and jump at every opportunity you get to talk to them which is still very rare as you've probably noticed.

It's like looking at a bunch of good looking chicks on the other side of the river but there's no bridge! it just plain sucks
I would say it's less awkward at weddings... At restaurant you can't just go sit on the table, but at wedding everyone knows each other kind of thing. So you can just go introduce yourself to her.

At restaurants, you'd have to try and catch her alone (for example, if she goes outside to get air or something).
 
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