"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Restaurant with Parents

Anguy

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I am a server at a fancy restuarant. Every night I see a lot of cute and hot chicks eating with their whole family.

What is the best way to talk to those chicks?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey, I did exactly the same at weddings and there family is like a wall of **** block and you'd just look weird if you just went and talked to them.

There is no best way you've got to have luck and jump at every opportunity you get to talk to them which is still very rare as you've probably noticed.

It's like looking at a bunch of good looking chicks on the other side of the river but there's no bridge! it just plain sucks
 

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Analyzeit said:
Hey, I did exactly the same at weddings and there family is like a wall of **** block and you'd just look weird if you just went and talked to them.

There is no best way you've got to have luck and jump at every opportunity you get to talk to them which is still very rare as you've probably noticed.

It's like looking at a bunch of good looking chicks on the other side of the river but there's no bridge! it just plain sucks
I would say it's less awkward at weddings... At restaurant you can't just go sit on the table, but at wedding everyone knows each other kind of thing. So you can just go introduce yourself to her.

At restaurants, you'd have to try and catch her alone (for example, if she goes outside to get air or something).
 
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