"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Restaurant with Parents

Anguy

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I am a server at a fancy restuarant. Every night I see a lot of cute and hot chicks eating with their whole family.

What is the best way to talk to those chicks?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey, I did exactly the same at weddings and there family is like a wall of **** block and you'd just look weird if you just went and talked to them.

There is no best way you've got to have luck and jump at every opportunity you get to talk to them which is still very rare as you've probably noticed.

It's like looking at a bunch of good looking chicks on the other side of the river but there's no bridge! it just plain sucks
 

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Analyzeit said:
Hey, I did exactly the same at weddings and there family is like a wall of **** block and you'd just look weird if you just went and talked to them.

There is no best way you've got to have luck and jump at every opportunity you get to talk to them which is still very rare as you've probably noticed.

It's like looking at a bunch of good looking chicks on the other side of the river but there's no bridge! it just plain sucks
I would say it's less awkward at weddings... At restaurant you can't just go sit on the table, but at wedding everyone knows each other kind of thing. So you can just go introduce yourself to her.

At restaurants, you'd have to try and catch her alone (for example, if she goes outside to get air or something).
 
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