"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rest: probably the most under-rated part of the lifting lifestyle

Fuglydude

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I personally think most guys don't really understand how much rest their bodies need to fully recover. Getting just the right amount of rest is tricky: not getting enough rest will slow progress in the gym...getting too much can cause reduced stimulation for muscle and strength development and hamper progress.

I think rest is VERY under-rated...and something that not many guys really talk about. We're always concerned about diets, and sets and reps and routines, etc.

I'd like to get an idea of how much time you guys need to fully recover to feel like you're back to 100%.

Personally, assuming I'm getting adequate amounts of rest and nutrition I feel like I'm back to 100% after around 72-96 hours of rest (this means no cardio/no weights and only moderate physical activity).

How about you guys?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrRuckus

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It's wrong to assume sitting on your ass is the best way to recover.
 

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What do you mean by rest time anyways? Are you talking about the time between work outs that you're not doing anything as high intensity, or are you talking nights/hours of sleep?

Besides, recovery varies depending on individual's genes, training level, recovery speed, the intensity of the exercise done and whatnot. If recovery was as simple as not doing **** for a few days after lifting then there would be no need for things like periodization. It is simple, but it's not.

Since I am at a beginner level, I can recover after 2 nights of sleep, so roughly 48 hours after a workout.
 

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eldafar said:
Since I am at a beginner level, I can recover after 2 nights of sleep, so roughly 48 hours after a workout.
Ive always thought beginners require more rest?
 

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bigshot said:
Ive always thought beginners require more rest?
Is is true that beginners' recovery abilities aren't as high compared to those of more advanced lifters.

As Rippetoe says a beginner doesn't lift nearly as close to his/her potential max as an advanced lifter, so the body recovers pretty fast. Which is why his program has squats 3x a week, and even deadlifts after squats.

In other words, since my lifts are light, my body recovers faster :crackup:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah beginners are not doing the same workload as the more advanced so they have less to actually recover from.

Iron Addict talks somewhere about squatting three times a week and says he couldn't do it anymore because even the light day at 80% was still like 425 lbs and hardly felt like a recovery day.
 

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MrR is correct, activity is still important.

However, boiling in a salt bath for a while is certainly allowed:D
 

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In my experience, low-moderate intensity, steady-state cardio is the 'magic link' which keeps me from getting out of shape while resting/recovering. I keep a very demanding schedule, and won't lift heavy if I don't feel well rested & recovered. If I'm burning the candle and know it's going to several days or longer before I'm rested enough to 'do it right', I'll add some pull-ups, push-ups, & cable row sets to keep the rust off after cardio.
 

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i just at 4.5k calories after volume day of texas. its the next day and im sorer. WTF?
my maintenance is ~2700-2900!!!
 
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