"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rest: probably the most under-rated part of the lifting lifestyle

Fuglydude

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I personally think most guys don't really understand how much rest their bodies need to fully recover. Getting just the right amount of rest is tricky: not getting enough rest will slow progress in the gym...getting too much can cause reduced stimulation for muscle and strength development and hamper progress.

I think rest is VERY under-rated...and something that not many guys really talk about. We're always concerned about diets, and sets and reps and routines, etc.

I'd like to get an idea of how much time you guys need to fully recover to feel like you're back to 100%.

Personally, assuming I'm getting adequate amounts of rest and nutrition I feel like I'm back to 100% after around 72-96 hours of rest (this means no cardio/no weights and only moderate physical activity).

How about you guys?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mrRuckus

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It's wrong to assume sitting on your ass is the best way to recover.
 

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What do you mean by rest time anyways? Are you talking about the time between work outs that you're not doing anything as high intensity, or are you talking nights/hours of sleep?

Besides, recovery varies depending on individual's genes, training level, recovery speed, the intensity of the exercise done and whatnot. If recovery was as simple as not doing **** for a few days after lifting then there would be no need for things like periodization. It is simple, but it's not.

Since I am at a beginner level, I can recover after 2 nights of sleep, so roughly 48 hours after a workout.
 

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eldafar said:
Since I am at a beginner level, I can recover after 2 nights of sleep, so roughly 48 hours after a workout.
Ive always thought beginners require more rest?
 

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bigshot said:
Ive always thought beginners require more rest?
Is is true that beginners' recovery abilities aren't as high compared to those of more advanced lifters.

As Rippetoe says a beginner doesn't lift nearly as close to his/her potential max as an advanced lifter, so the body recovers pretty fast. Which is why his program has squats 3x a week, and even deadlifts after squats.

In other words, since my lifts are light, my body recovers faster :crackup:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah beginners are not doing the same workload as the more advanced so they have less to actually recover from.

Iron Addict talks somewhere about squatting three times a week and says he couldn't do it anymore because even the light day at 80% was still like 425 lbs and hardly felt like a recovery day.
 

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MrR is correct, activity is still important.

However, boiling in a salt bath for a while is certainly allowed:D
 

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In my experience, low-moderate intensity, steady-state cardio is the 'magic link' which keeps me from getting out of shape while resting/recovering. I keep a very demanding schedule, and won't lift heavy if I don't feel well rested & recovered. If I'm burning the candle and know it's going to several days or longer before I'm rested enough to 'do it right', I'll add some pull-ups, push-ups, & cable row sets to keep the rust off after cardio.
 

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i just at 4.5k calories after volume day of texas. its the next day and im sorer. WTF?
my maintenance is ~2700-2900!!!
 
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