"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pm856

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Hey fellas.

How do you respond when you have different views on things with a woman and she kind of acts "non-submissive" by being firm in her decision? For instance, when you dont like when women dress with too tight clothes but she's like "i am going to dress like that sometimes", with a firm almost bitchy frame. Obviously calling her out doesnt work since it becomew controlling.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vantagepoint34

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Hey fellas.

How do you respond when you have different views on things with a woman and she kind of acts "non-submissive" by being firm in her decision? For instance, when you dont like when women dress with too tight clothes but she's like "i am going to dress like that sometimes", with a firm almost bitchy frame. Obviously calling her out doesnt work since it becomew controlling.
Well we have women’s rights movement and women nowadays make more than $8/hr. You have to look at her interest level in you. Things like integrity and loyalty are part of the equation. You cover confidence/self control/ and try to remain a challenge. The first 6 months of relationship or knowing her is how you know if she friended you. Guys that go 10 years with a girl and don’t put a ring on it last as long as your first impression which is when you meet the girl in first 9 seconds of meeting her. Science has come a long way...
 

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This is simple. She has two options, to change herself or stand her ground. If she stands her ground then you have two options, to accept it or find another woman.

If you were hoping for a way to successfully get her to do what you want against her will then I have to disappoint you, I can't think of any legal or moral way to accomplish that.
 
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