"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Response to "Can I touch your hair?"

Alittude

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Hey guys.

Because my hair is big and curly I get a lot of girls asking me this mainly at parties and other social gatherings. I was wondering what is a good response to this that is either C&F or just makes the the girl seem more interested.

I usually just say "You'll have to pay" which has lead to a kiss once but I don't plan on it being that easy again. Any replies would be greatly appreciated thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rocko

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Thats exactly what i was gonna say, if they touch say "that'll cost ya 20 bucks, this **** ain't free" or if they ask, just be like "woah woah woah, and where's my end of the deal?" or sumthin like that
 

Migel

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I disqualify myself and say seriously "Don't or they will fall off".
Can't say it makes any wonders, but gets a laugh.
 

upsidedownside7

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Why don't you just let her do it?

Touching between a man and woman is GOOD. There is no way refusing to let a girl touch your hair will make her want to fu*k you.
 
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