response to a girl that sends a pic?

[Patrix]

So, I'm still learning this stuff and this might sound like a pretty dumb question...

Met this girl online (30). Got her number. Gave her a ring 2 days later. Talked to her for about 20 minutes. Conversation was good, kept it light/playful then setup a date.

At end of conversation she says "send me a picture so I can use it for your contact picture"

I try texting her a pic and she replies saying how she couldn't view it on her phone. I then told her "let me guess...2003 blackberry? Time to upgrade your phone!"

she responds with "lol Send it to my email please"
I send it the next day.

She then texts me that she got it. I don't respond. Then a few hours later she sends a pic of herself asking "do you like this one?" She looks fly as hell...

I was going to simply respond with "nice" but, was also thinking of sending this:

"Nice -almost as good as mine!"

Only reason I ask is because I don't want to fall back into my nice guy ways and don't want to give over the control. Or am I thinking too much into this crap?

Thoughts?

 

[No.Danny]

Is this really what being a "DJ" has come to??

 

[logicallefty]

"Nice -almost as good as mine!"

Thoughts?

 

[apprenticedj]

You're on the right path with teasing her but I wouldn't recommend your choosen comment.

Maybe something like "I can work with that!!"??

 

[MOTU]

IMHO, giving her some validation isn't bad if it is a pump and dump situation, and may even be ok longer term. It's not as though liking her makes you weaker.

I use the phrase "l like that" a lot. I believe it's effective because when I don't say it, the opposite is implied: "thanks for the pic".

 

[Bible_Belt]

Compliments are fine, and I think more than justified. But avoid anything sexual in nature until you have had sex with her. "Cute face!" is an example. It's a genuine, honest compliment that cannot possibly come across as desperate or creepy. It gives validation without backfiring. And it lets the girl still wonder if you think she is sexy.

 

[Zarky]

whatever OP. You're overthinking. Find more women to date and you won't have to analyze stuff quite this thorougly.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Read Rollo's "The Medium Is The Message" blog. It's about me!
Basically be very nonchalant and not too eager to reward her too much.
I like the "nice, almost as good as mine" line.

 

[JimmyBizzle]

Read Rollo's "The Medium Is The Message" blog. It's about me!
Basically be very nonchalant and not too eager to reward her too much.
I like the "nice, almost as good as mine" line.

Got link?

 

[Greasy Pig]

I can find a google reference on my phone but not an actual link unfortunately.
Just google rollo greasy pig and see how you go.

 

[Zarky]

I might have said "Why don't you take a pic when we get together."