"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Responding to "You're cute" comments ?

bigbag

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I get a lot of "you're cute" comments, and for the life of me, I can't figure out anything witty to respond with.

Not too sure if a C&F response would be suitable, since IMO it may come off being a bit too conceited for a "you're cute" comment.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Krassus

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It doesn't really matter what you say to tyat, as long as it's not something stupid. Comments like "you're cute" are usually as close as chicks come to saying "**** me" :) All you have to do after that is not screw up. That being said, i usually respond with "well well, i like you too :)"
 

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You don't ruin the sexual tension by saying you like them too you say "Yes i know" like 'I am me' said. Or "Yeah i know i get that all the time" lets them know other girls are interested too and makes them chase you more.
 

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"You can't win me with compliments,buy me a drink and ill reconsider your offer"

"IM NOT CUTE,IM AN UNSTOPPABLE SEX MACHINE,but i like teddy bears alot too,they're soooo cute"

"That's your best pickup line? At least 5 girls hit on me with that tonight,try "you're a sexual beast",i like that more" <- is she says it you're in :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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muttley

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her: your cute
you: im much more than that ;)

her: your cute
you: yeh, look but dont touch ;) <---- watch her try and touch you

her: your cute
you: glad you noticed, but i hope your not thinking any dirrrrrttty thoughts, perve :D


enough for now ;)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Thank you, I try... <<wink>>

The "I'm much more than that" is a great line in certain situations, you just have to be prepared to follow it up with some examples because the woman always replies with "How much more?","Oh yeah, like what", or "Oh really?" Use it the wrong way, you come off like a egotist or even worse, a "line spinner."
 

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This actually happened last night (see my FR in Mature Man):

So these HB promoters are trying to get me to buy a Bass Ale so I can get a t-shirt and picture with them. I'm being difficult and almost making them beg:

HB: You are the cutest guy in the place, and we just have to get a picture with you.
Me: Yeah I know, someone has to make you guys look better.

Both chics were about HB8, maybe higher, easily the hottest chics in the place.

Needless to say, in the end this seemed to have worked pretty well (along with everyone else I did.)

See thread here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=102860
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't think about it too much. Generally, you should avoid searching for good replies, because that means that you CARE TOO MUCH what she thinks about you, which is always a bad thing. I usually start fooling around and say "ohhhhh, yea, I know you say this to every guy..."
 

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You can't win me with compliments,buy me a drink and ill reconsider your offer.....thats the kinda thing i would use.

"Not as cute as you" ERRR! WRONG! Way to go pedistooling her and losing the meta-frame before you even start!

"Thanks" ERRR! WRONG! Whats that going to achive.....you basically just ended the convo. Its also the polite international lang for "Great but im not intrested"
 

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Without missing a beat you gotta say..."You should take me out sometime then!" with a sly smile! yea! Can't wait to use this
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ive gotten that sh!t my whole life too. Girls usually perceive as being ****y and stuck up so i kind of live up to it depending on the situation. A girl that ive kind of known but never really talked to came up to me one night at the bar and she said blah blah youre really cute and you know it. And i was like "yea i know" and your pretty cute also. I throw in a ****y reponse almost all the time when i hear this but them i compliment them too only after though.
 

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"It's a tough job but someone's gotta do it"
 

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bigbag said:
I get a lot of "you're cute" comments, and for the life of me, I can't figure out anything witty to respond with.

Not too sure if a C&F response would be suitable, since IMO it may come off being a bit too conceited for a "you're cute" comment.
"You're cute"
"Can't you think of anything else to say? In order for me to pick you, you have to stand out; not say the same as everybody else."

Something like that.
 
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