Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Responding to a text after a date?

kraytkiller

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Went on a date tonight, good result, made out a bunch and a bunch of groping. Had a ton of fun the entire time, chick loved it. Long story short, as soon as she got home she texts me 'Thanks for tonight, I had a ton of fun' and right after that about 5 minutes later, a text saying 'So did I make a good first impression? lol'

Should I respond or wait till tomorrow to respond? Not entirely sure what to say either. I want to turn this into a hangout at my place this thursday and f-close her which I'm 80% sure she'll be down for.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, she texted you right way, you're in the drivers seat. That's a great start.

Girls like to know where they stand after a date, especially if they like the guy. She's seeking validation.

If you do respond tonight, you could be very brief but say you'll follow up tomorrow. I guess it depends on what time it is. But when you do respond tomorrow, try to setup the hangout on Thursday right away. Don't do a whole lot of chit chat back n forth. Make the plans and then you're busy.
 

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Well if you waited until today (Wednesday) I would just text back something like:

Hey had a great time. Come over on Thursday for blah blah blah.

She is definitely into you.
 

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As a general rule.. never take serious questions from women seriously. Once you take women seriously you come off as a beta faggot.

The best response is the response she doesn't expect. Say: "NOPE.. you made a horrible impression"

Or something short like: "Haha, you're cute".

Most men don't realize this, but once a woman is attracted, you don't need to kiss her ass anymore. Most men are afraid of "f*cking it up" so they try harder when they should really be kicking back and clipping their toenails in front of her. Once she likes you.. believe it or not.. you really don't have to do anything else.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
As a general rule.. never take serious questions from women seriously. Once you take women seriously you come off as a beta faggot.

The best response is the response she doesn't expect. Say: "NOPE.. you made a horrible impression"

Or something short like: "Haha, you're cute".

Most men don't realize this, but once a woman is attracted, you don't need to kiss her ass anymore. Most men are afraid of "f*cking it up" so they try harder when they should really be kicking back and clipping their toenails in front of her. Once she likes you.. believe it or not.. you really don't have to do anything else.
true story.:rock: +1


honestly I've been knowing a girl for less than a month and due to high protein diet because of training, ive been letting out the protein farts!

basically, I figured it would be funny to throw her a "cupcake"(cup &throw a protein fart at her).

she choked and gagged on the stink, but she still like me.

so I went for a dutch oven. She left the room choking on the fart - still sucked me off later :D

Yeah, im disgusting, I know, but I dont care - that shiit was funny as fvck. She's still a plate, still likes me and even offered to clean my van for me today.:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kraytkiller

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I texted back earlier today saying 'Your welcome :) Your okay I guess.. haha :) I'll decide for sure on Thursday'

She responded with 'I'm okay u guess?! Lol what?! Good morning btw :)'

So my plan right now is to pretty much ignore her all today then text her tomorrow to solidify the plans for the night.

I'm thinking that ignoring her will create thoughts in her mind about why I'm not texting back, and make her want my attention, making her more likely not to flake tomorrow? Am I on the right track?
 

plate's_empty

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PlayHer Man said:
Most men don't realize this, but once a woman is attracted, you don't need to kiss her ass anymore. Most men are afraid of "f*cking it up" so they try harder when they should really be kicking back and clipping their toenails in front of her. Once she likes you.. believe it or not.. you really don't have to do anything else.
^^^So true. I've tried too hard many times, making myself seem needy. Even after F-closing them, with them acting like a puppy dog.

And Purefilth LOL. This girl I was dating told me (many months later), the second time I stayed the night with her, after I fell asleep, I let out the loudest most disgusting smelling fart she'd have been witness too, she had to get out of bed and leave the room haha. She ended up becoming my girlfriend ;)

And when you fart in your hand and put in in their face, we call that a buttercup.
 
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