"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Responding to a text after a date?

kraytkiller

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Went on a date tonight, good result, made out a bunch and a bunch of groping. Had a ton of fun the entire time, chick loved it. Long story short, as soon as she got home she texts me 'Thanks for tonight, I had a ton of fun' and right after that about 5 minutes later, a text saying 'So did I make a good first impression? lol'

Should I respond or wait till tomorrow to respond? Not entirely sure what to say either. I want to turn this into a hangout at my place this thursday and f-close her which I'm 80% sure she'll be down for.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, she texted you right way, you're in the drivers seat. That's a great start.

Girls like to know where they stand after a date, especially if they like the guy. She's seeking validation.

If you do respond tonight, you could be very brief but say you'll follow up tomorrow. I guess it depends on what time it is. But when you do respond tomorrow, try to setup the hangout on Thursday right away. Don't do a whole lot of chit chat back n forth. Make the plans and then you're busy.
 

Uncharted

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Well if you waited until today (Wednesday) I would just text back something like:

Hey had a great time. Come over on Thursday for blah blah blah.

She is definitely into you.
 

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As a general rule.. never take serious questions from women seriously. Once you take women seriously you come off as a beta faggot.

The best response is the response she doesn't expect. Say: "NOPE.. you made a horrible impression"

Or something short like: "Haha, you're cute".

Most men don't realize this, but once a woman is attracted, you don't need to kiss her ass anymore. Most men are afraid of "f*cking it up" so they try harder when they should really be kicking back and clipping their toenails in front of her. Once she likes you.. believe it or not.. you really don't have to do anything else.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
As a general rule.. never take serious questions from women seriously. Once you take women seriously you come off as a beta faggot.

The best response is the response she doesn't expect. Say: "NOPE.. you made a horrible impression"

Or something short like: "Haha, you're cute".

Most men don't realize this, but once a woman is attracted, you don't need to kiss her ass anymore. Most men are afraid of "f*cking it up" so they try harder when they should really be kicking back and clipping their toenails in front of her. Once she likes you.. believe it or not.. you really don't have to do anything else.
true story.:rock: +1


honestly I've been knowing a girl for less than a month and due to high protein diet because of training, ive been letting out the protein farts!

basically, I figured it would be funny to throw her a "cupcake"(cup &throw a protein fart at her).

she choked and gagged on the stink, but she still like me.

so I went for a dutch oven. She left the room choking on the fart - still sucked me off later :D

Yeah, im disgusting, I know, but I dont care - that shiit was funny as fvck. She's still a plate, still likes me and even offered to clean my van for me today.:D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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kraytkiller

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I texted back earlier today saying 'Your welcome :) Your okay I guess.. haha :) I'll decide for sure on Thursday'

She responded with 'I'm okay u guess?! Lol what?! Good morning btw :)'

So my plan right now is to pretty much ignore her all today then text her tomorrow to solidify the plans for the night.

I'm thinking that ignoring her will create thoughts in her mind about why I'm not texting back, and make her want my attention, making her more likely not to flake tomorrow? Am I on the right track?
 

plate's_empty

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PlayHer Man said:
Most men don't realize this, but once a woman is attracted, you don't need to kiss her ass anymore. Most men are afraid of "f*cking it up" so they try harder when they should really be kicking back and clipping their toenails in front of her. Once she likes you.. believe it or not.. you really don't have to do anything else.
^^^So true. I've tried too hard many times, making myself seem needy. Even after F-closing them, with them acting like a puppy dog.

And Purefilth LOL. This girl I was dating told me (many months later), the second time I stayed the night with her, after I fell asleep, I let out the loudest most disgusting smelling fart she'd have been witness too, she had to get out of bed and leave the room haha. She ended up becoming my girlfriend ;)

And when you fart in your hand and put in in their face, we call that a buttercup.
 
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