"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Resolving Stand-offs

Phrost

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As we know, DJs dare to make their stand even if it conflicts with HB's opinion. DJs are also willing to "next" a girl if she's a brat.

However in a LTR, how should one handle quarrels? Whichever side is at fault, if the girl doesn't want to resolve it calmly because she's still in the heat, should the DJ make the first step and attempt to make up? And if so, how?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Phyzzle

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If she's still in heat, mate with her -

Ok, if she's still angry, you can leave 2 hours.

Don't fake-apologize for stuff you did that wasn't wrong. It will get you nowhere. She'll come around when she cools down.
 

Phrost

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Well, what if you're the one that's wrong? I know that it's fine to apologize if you're really in the wrong, but what if she's being a brat about it(and possible rightly if it's big issue)? How best can you resolve the situation?
 

Fash

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I usually just look at her, smile and say "keep going babe. you're doing well. pushing me towards the right direction"

that is guaranteed to shut her up! women are so scared of the thought of us breaking up with them. Trust me!
 

dynamicallyidle

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1) Never let her get under your skin. Never let her see you sweat.

2) Condition her. When she starts acting bratty, just ignore her and act as if she isn't worth your time. When she's in a good mood, shower her with attention. She'll figure it out after a few bratty incidents.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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