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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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resentment towards my ex that I project onto other women

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When I found this website 6 months ago I was a total afc. I'm still in recovery but, now I'm a lot more succesfull with women. My game has improved by leaps and bounds but, I do see a flaw in my behavior thats srcewing me up.

I have an extremly negative outlook, a lot resentment towards my ex that I project onto other women. Im starting to become too much of a jerk. some women think its cute at first but they get tired of it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How long did u date your ex...????
Join the club.....My last realtionship ended about five months ago, and we kinda broke up in a bad way.....I didn't get the closesure that i wanted and that made me very angry and frustrated.....!!!I project this i hate all women attitude but it has attracted alot of girls, but once you reel them in, drop the hate game down a notch...

Girls dont not wanna go out with a guy that has issues and they are like sniffer dogs they can detect whether you are bitter about your ex or not....Ease up have fun , just play your game and remember that you will never be what you were six months ago...!!!!
 
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What other mindset will a "MADSCIENTIST" have - quit hating!!!!

Hate yourself for having such an attitude!!
 
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Yeah bro, having a mindset like that is just a recipe for disaster...Dont ever bring things in from your previous relationships...you gotta learn that your past relationships are just that...In the past...

If anything that I would bring over from past relationships, its sh*t that you've learned from them, such as how she reacted to certain things, what worked for you and what didnt...things like that...Dont, i repeat, dont bring over bad thoughts or memories...That was that girl, whoever your with or will be with is a different girl. Not that im saying they are completely different, because some of the them do think the same...But remember what worked and what didnt work with your ex, and its all good!!!
 
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