"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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resentment towards my ex that I project onto other women

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When I found this website 6 months ago I was a total afc. I'm still in recovery but, now I'm a lot more succesfull with women. My game has improved by leaps and bounds but, I do see a flaw in my behavior thats srcewing me up.

I have an extremly negative outlook, a lot resentment towards my ex that I project onto other women. Im starting to become too much of a jerk. some women think its cute at first but they get tired of it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How long did u date your ex...????
Join the club.....My last realtionship ended about five months ago, and we kinda broke up in a bad way.....I didn't get the closesure that i wanted and that made me very angry and frustrated.....!!!I project this i hate all women attitude but it has attracted alot of girls, but once you reel them in, drop the hate game down a notch...

Girls dont not wanna go out with a guy that has issues and they are like sniffer dogs they can detect whether you are bitter about your ex or not....Ease up have fun , just play your game and remember that you will never be what you were six months ago...!!!!
 
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What other mindset will a "MADSCIENTIST" have - quit hating!!!!

Hate yourself for having such an attitude!!
 

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Yeah bro, having a mindset like that is just a recipe for disaster...Dont ever bring things in from your previous relationships...you gotta learn that your past relationships are just that...In the past...

If anything that I would bring over from past relationships, its sh*t that you've learned from them, such as how she reacted to certain things, what worked for you and what didnt...things like that...Dont, i repeat, dont bring over bad thoughts or memories...That was that girl, whoever your with or will be with is a different girl. Not that im saying they are completely different, because some of the them do think the same...But remember what worked and what didnt work with your ex, and its all good!!!
 
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