"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Few Weeks ago i asked for your recomendations on great self help books, books that truly changed the way you thought about life, helped you alot in life, filled with wisdome, knolwage, intresting things and all that good stuff, after checking out these books and doing a few searches on amazon. com i fianlly compiled a small list go great books. when i get some free time i gots to read them, maybe you 2 will also learn something, or want to thow out a good book i missed. u konw who u are. thank you.

plenty of knowlage for all, help yourself. :)
"perhaps u know a good book on basic spelling 4 me" :rolleyes:

Think and Grow Rich
by Napoleon Hill

The 48 Laws of Power
by Robert Greene

Your Own Worst Enemy
by Ken Christian

The New Psycho-Cybernetics
by Maxwell, M.D., F.I.C.S. Maltz, Dan S. Kennedy

The Complete Book of Fingermath
by Edwin M. Lieberthal

How to Persuade People Who Don't Want to be Persuaded
by Joel Bauer, Mark Levy

Get Anyone to Do Anything
by David J. Lieberman

How to Give a Damn Good Speech
by Philip R. Theibert

How to Think Like a Millionaire
by Mark Fisher, Marc Allen

How to Think Like Leonardo da Vinci
by MICHAEL J. GELB

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert Pirsig
 

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"Thresholds of the Mind" by Bill Harris

"Comedy Writing Secrets" by Melvin Helitzer
 

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The complete works of Chuaung Tse.

Gives you a new outlook on life; I am much more chill after reading this book.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to Win Friends & Influence People - Dale Carengie
 

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I heard about one that's coming out (not to soon) that's going to blow all of these books away... :) I'll fill you guys in on it later.
 
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