Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
*Im intoxicavted to a good amount and typing to the best of my ability&*
so for those of you who know the story thats pretty cool.
for those of you who don't then: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136360
So, I waited till the 2 weeks she wasnt available was over till I tried to reschedule our 1st date. Today was her first day at work after those 2 weeks and I decided to man the fcuk up and ask her on our 1st original date in person so I went over to work "to get my paychecck"". To make things as brief as possible I told her that I wasnt the type to flake and I wanted to make things up and take her out on wedsday night. She said she coudlnt. So I decided to make a last ditch effort and ask her out for tonight and she said she couldnt. I know what what you guys are thinking already and that her responses are of signs ogf disinterest but I also called her a few days after new years and she told me that she didnt have fun cuz her grandfather happened to have had a stroke that night and she spent it in the hospital instead of going to Las Vegas where her and her fam were originally supposed to be at. Her excuse for not being able to go out each night was because she watches over her grandpa at the hospital for about 4-5 hours after work...I really hate to doubt her or seem misunderstamnding to her situation...but did I lose some attraction??? I know for a fact that she doesnt have friends here because shes new and she doesnt really go out...will I end up in the friendzone if I take her out or pursue her in her current situation??...should I ask her when SHES free to ask her out? Is it even a good idea to take out someone whos concern is somewhere else(she mentioned that she was getting depressed here because all her friends are back at texas and the fact that her grandparents are both in critical condition)???
help is needed please....
so for those of you who know the story thats pretty cool.
for those of you who don't then: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136360
So, I waited till the 2 weeks she wasnt available was over till I tried to reschedule our 1st date. Today was her first day at work after those 2 weeks and I decided to man the fcuk up and ask her on our 1st original date in person so I went over to work "to get my paychecck"". To make things as brief as possible I told her that I wasnt the type to flake and I wanted to make things up and take her out on wedsday night. She said she coudlnt. So I decided to make a last ditch effort and ask her out for tonight and she said she couldnt. I know what what you guys are thinking already and that her responses are of signs ogf disinterest but I also called her a few days after new years and she told me that she didnt have fun cuz her grandfather happened to have had a stroke that night and she spent it in the hospital instead of going to Las Vegas where her and her fam were originally supposed to be at. Her excuse for not being able to go out each night was because she watches over her grandpa at the hospital for about 4-5 hours after work...I really hate to doubt her or seem misunderstamnding to her situation...but did I lose some attraction??? I know for a fact that she doesnt have friends here because shes new and she doesnt really go out...will I end up in the friendzone if I take her out or pursue her in her current situation??...should I ask her when SHES free to ask her out? Is it even a good idea to take out someone whos concern is somewhere else(she mentioned that she was getting depressed here because all her friends are back at texas and the fact that her grandparents are both in critical condition)???
help is needed please....