"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Required Reading to become a DJ & a better person

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I've recently been doing a lot of reading since I'm vacation and have some spare time, and I'd like to start a thread dedicated to books/ebooks people should read to become a [better] DJ and a better person.

So far I recommend the following:

DJ Bible - select parts. Some of the stuff is gold, some is repetitive, but every now and then reading a couple posts is insightful.

Sosuave.com articles - ok this is a given but I might as well cover all the bases. A lot of the articles are basic information but they're a great starting resource.

"Double Your Dating" by David DeAngelo (ebook) - quick read, very good basic information and a good eye opener. I read it in a day.

"The Game" by Neil Strauss - extremely entertaining read with some surprising conclusions. I just finished reading it and it's worth every penny. Rather than a list of behaviors, this book follows "Style" (Neil) in his journey from AFC to one of the top PUAs in the world.

"48 Laws of Power" by Robert Greene - found it in the business section but it's an incredible read with lots of historical examples (this is all around knowledge that will get you far).

"The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene - similar to 48 laws of power but dealing more with seduction. I just started reading it so I can't comment much on it, but so far it's solid. Lots of historical examples of seducers as well.

posts by Rollo Tomassi - he's writing a book but until it comes out he has some very interesting theories on interpersonal relationships.

In addition to these recommendations I'm looking for other books to read as well, so let's get some input here.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alot of great books out there

Heres a few and I'll add more

Mastering your Inner Self Serge King
Psychology of Persuasion Kevin Hogan
Power of Focus- Jack Canfield
 

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Ricky said:
Alot of great books out there

Heres a few and I'll add more

Mastering your Inner Self Serge King
Psychology of Persuasion Kevin Hogan
Power of Focus- Jack Canfield
I heard how to win friends and influence people is a good book. The books I have are

The Art of Approaching

Real World Seduction

The Players Black Book

Dynamic Sexy life

High Status Male

Double Your Dating

Secrets of An Alpha Male

Advanced Macking

The DJ Bible

I didn't pay for any these yeah :rock:
 

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md3sign said:
posts by Rollo Tomassi - he's writing a book but until it comes out he has some very interesting theories on interpersonal relationships.

AKA a book on how to be a total keyboard jockey, all theory, no action, hmmm doesn't that remind you of a certain gender.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MacAvoy said:
AKA a book on how to be a total keyboard jockey, all theory, no action, hmmm doesn't that remind you of a certain gender.
I take it you don't agree with his writing? I'm not advocating anyone buying his book as its yet to be released and I would certainly wait for a public opinion before dropping the dough, but I personally found a lot of his posts to make sense, even though some are taken to slight extremes.
 

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There where more posts on this thread originally!

I posted some and i know other people deffinately did, can some one please tell me why it was deleted?
 

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Here is a few that I currently have:

How to Win Friends & Influence People
by Dale Carnegie

Chicken Soup for the Soul: Living Your Dreams
By Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen

The Alladin Factor
By Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen

The Social Animal (it's a psyche book but it was a good one)
Elliot Aranson

7 Habits of Highly Successful People
Franklin Covey

Please Stop Laughing At Me...
Jodee Blanco

The Strangest Secret (Audio Recording only. Downloadable at http://www.markvictorhansen.com/strangest_secret.php)
Earl Nightengale

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MisterNigma said:
I can't believe no one has mentioned:

The Venusian Arts Handbook by Mystery. Basically the mystery method.


-E.Nigma
Damn, go ahead and give away our secrets why dontcha! No more Mystery now is there eh!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MisterNigma said:
I can't believe no one has mentioned:

The Venusian Arts Handbook by Mystery. Basically the mystery method.

-E.Nigma

I can't believe no one has mentioned:

Principles of Mathematical Analysis, Third Edition by Walter Rudin

Its Hardcover! :rockon:
 

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The only reason i bumped this thread was because a lot of posts where deleted discussing the rollo tomassi, pooks post, david deida and og mandino's writings.

Mods why where they deleted!?!?!?!?!? i didn't imagine writing and reading them!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Doggystyle said:
The only reason i bumped this thread was because a lot of posts where deleted discussing the rollo tomassi, pooks post, david deida and og mandino's writings.
I can account for at least one of the RT threads. I basically won a debate against him so it "disappeared".
 

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"How to meet and connect with women",ebook by Wayne Elise aka. Juggler. I like most of his style.
 

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Any book about the real world that makes you a more well-rounded person with something to talk about.
 

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I also just started reading The Red Queen - Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature by Matt Ridley. Great stuff!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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