"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Request: Big list of date reports?

Huffman

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Hey, do you know any website that hosts a large list of date reports?

I see field reports but I feel that most of them don't apply to my game. I hate danceclubs so 80% of FRs aren't for me, but I still want to have some inspiration.

For example, I'm going on cool 2nd and 3rd dates but they don't really go anywhere. For example, I might take a girl to go bouldering, which is super fun, but what to do afterwards? have a drink, in what venue, how to really escalate sexually when we both are tired? Just an example where I went on a date that turned out to be bad logistics.

I just want to read through alot of experiences, to beef up what I already have.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BackInTheGame78

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I have several FRs that you might be interested in...search through my threads for the ones starting with FR
 
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