"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Reputation ruined because of my old AFCness

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Rint

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No one's giving me a chance to prove i'm better at DJing every treats me like **** cause of my old AFC attitude. What do i do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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REJ-

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Don't worry about it, you'll recover from that. My reputation was probably 10 times worse than yours, but I made my way back up. Don't try to prove that you're better, just be better and people will keep noticing. Their view of you as an AFC will slowly crumble as they see more of your inner DJ.
 
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Rocko

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Like they said, if you change, they will notice, plus, its not like you ruined your reputation with the whole world, I mean, come on, i bet if you went to a shopping mall filled with HBs they wouldn't know who you are, you can build off of that
 
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haha bro sound silike me in my high school now... im a top dawg just not in my town lol.... i can get girls any where else except for where i go to school because of my ugly weak ass three years ago alot has changed and now i dont worry bout proving any one wrong just wait till college lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sportf190 said:
haha bro sound silike me in my high school now... im a top dawg just not in my town lol.... i can get girls any where else except for where i go to school because of my ugly weak ass three years ago alot has changed and now i dont worry bout proving any one wrong just wait till college lol
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That sounds like me
 
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Zerotwoonenine

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better your self, get a better inner game going, increase social circle, get friends who doesnt know your past and practice by going to their parties.
 
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girlsarecrazy

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Def. increase your social circle and gain guy friends before you go after chicks.
 
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