"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reputation ruined because of my old AFCness

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Rint

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No one's giving me a chance to prove i'm better at DJing every treats me like **** cause of my old AFC attitude. What do i do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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REJ-

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Don't worry about it, you'll recover from that. My reputation was probably 10 times worse than yours, but I made my way back up. Don't try to prove that you're better, just be better and people will keep noticing. Their view of you as an AFC will slowly crumble as they see more of your inner DJ.
 
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Rocko

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Like they said, if you change, they will notice, plus, its not like you ruined your reputation with the whole world, I mean, come on, i bet if you went to a shopping mall filled with HBs they wouldn't know who you are, you can build off of that
 
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haha bro sound silike me in my high school now... im a top dawg just not in my town lol.... i can get girls any where else except for where i go to school because of my ugly weak ass three years ago alot has changed and now i dont worry bout proving any one wrong just wait till college lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bigg Boss

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sportf190 said:
haha bro sound silike me in my high school now... im a top dawg just not in my town lol.... i can get girls any where else except for where i go to school because of my ugly weak ass three years ago alot has changed and now i dont worry bout proving any one wrong just wait till college lol
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That sounds like me
 
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Zerotwoonenine

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better your self, get a better inner game going, increase social circle, get friends who doesnt know your past and practice by going to their parties.
 
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girlsarecrazy

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Def. increase your social circle and gain guy friends before you go after chicks.
 
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