Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Reputation Problem

Moon Ram

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I have been in this site for more then two years. In this two years I have been putting all the stuff over here in practice. But I have a problem, I have developed a bad rep in the process. Most of the girls in our school know me as the most infamous heart-breaker. I can't even talk to any girls now. I can smell a type of fear in them when they do talk to me. A lot of them try to avoid me. Now, how do I get out of this mess?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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theunflushables

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Ever hear the song "Bad Reputation" by Joan Jett? It is the ultimate "I don't give a fvck song." If you haven't listen to it. That should help you out with your reputation "problem".

If you've run out of options at school, start looking outside of school its a big world.
 

daygameguy

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Moon Ram said:
I have been in this site for more then two years. In this two years I have been putting all the stuff over here in practice. But I have a problem, I have developed a bad rep in the process. Most of the girls in our school know me as the most infamous heart-breaker. I can't even talk to any girls now. I can smell a type of fear in them when they do talk to me. A lot of them try to avoid me. Now, how do I get out of this mess?
You obviously haven't been putting any good advice into practice or else you wouldn't have developed a bad rep.
 
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