"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Reputation Problem

Moon Ram

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I have been in this site for more then two years. In this two years I have been putting all the stuff over here in practice. But I have a problem, I have developed a bad rep in the process. Most of the girls in our school know me as the most infamous heart-breaker. I can't even talk to any girls now. I can smell a type of fear in them when they do talk to me. A lot of them try to avoid me. Now, how do I get out of this mess?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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theunflushables

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Ever hear the song "Bad Reputation" by Joan Jett? It is the ultimate "I don't give a fvck song." If you haven't listen to it. That should help you out with your reputation "problem".

If you've run out of options at school, start looking outside of school its a big world.
 

daygameguy

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Moon Ram said:
I have been in this site for more then two years. In this two years I have been putting all the stuff over here in practice. But I have a problem, I have developed a bad rep in the process. Most of the girls in our school know me as the most infamous heart-breaker. I can't even talk to any girls now. I can smell a type of fear in them when they do talk to me. A lot of them try to avoid me. Now, how do I get out of this mess?
You obviously haven't been putting any good advice into practice or else you wouldn't have developed a bad rep.
 
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