I have been in this site for more then two years. In this two years I have been putting all the stuff over here in practice. But I have a problem, I have developed a bad rep in the process. Most of the girls in our school know me as the most infamous heart-breaker. I can't even talk to any girls now. I can smell a type of fear in them when they do talk to me. A lot of them try to avoid me. Now, how do I get out of this mess?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Reputation Problem
- Thread starter Moon Ram
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