"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Reputation" Explanation?

PDubb75

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Hopefully this is the right place for this.

Can anyone explain how the "reputation" works on here?

Specifically:
1) Green and Grey dots under the reputations you've received? Does grey mean negative?
2) How the amount of green dots changes under your username in a post?
3) different shades of green?
4) What this even does for you?
5) Any other importance I could be missing?

I appreciate it. Been curious for a while now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This forum doesn't really place much value in the rep system. Just use your common sense when following advice of the members here.
 

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reputation is when your bosses b**ch wife tells you no when you ask her for gas money, and then asks you if you gonna drive someplace, and you tell her to f**k off.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PDubb75

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Drdeee said:
reputation is when your bosses b**ch wife tells you no when you ask her for gas money, and then asks you if you gonna drive someplace, and you tell her to f**k off.
Do you need a hug, dude?
 

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I heard once you reach 7 jewels you unlock the super special secret forum.
 

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question: Is there any way for Allen to allow us to see all posts that we had that were repped? I can only get a limited number and I like to see which posts actually helped someone

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comic_relief said:
question: Is there any way for Allen to allow us to see all posts that we had that were repped? I can only get a limited number and I like to see which posts actually helped someone

- comic_relief
That was the reason I was curious. I like seeing that I helped someone with something. Plus, it re-assures me that what I've learned is sticking. But then my curiosity grew with these green dots. And then even moreso when I saw grey dots. And... I still have no idea what the dark and light grey ones are.
 

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PDubb75 said:
That was the reason I was curious. I like seeing that I helped someone with something. Plus, it re-assures me that what I've learned is sticking. But then my curiosity grew with these green dots. And then even moreso when I saw grey dots. And... I still have no idea what the dark and light grey ones are.
Click on the User CP on upper left. It should lead you to the threads that got repped. If you click on it, it leads you straight to your specific post.

I think the gray ones are when they disabled their rep system.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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squirrels said:
The more blips you have under your name, the more you would benefit from shutting off the computer and getting a life. ;)
ditto

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