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suavesuave

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She drives to my home to pick me up. We walk around the park. Kino, kiss. Tell her I wanna go inside her.
Walk back to my place. Bedroom. Shower. No LMR. She didn't swallow. I asked her where is it. She said she spit it out in the shower room. We laid on the bed and talk for a bit and she drove me to the gym.
 

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Was on a 1 year relationship. Broke up 6 months ago. Started to sarge again.

Supermarket -> Park on the beach -> Home -> Playground -> Home
She stayed overnight. Dropped her home. Lives only 4 blocks away :)
 
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Met her at Shoppers Drug with a friend. Number closed.
We left and went to grab food. While driving my friend told me she was crossing the road.
We stopped and I went to talk to her more.

Went out on a date #1 for 15 minutes.
Went out on date #2 a couple of nights ago. We went to my favorite park, then a walk on the beach, back to her apartment, and rest is history.
 

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She asked me what am I doing on the weekend.
I said let's meet tonight. She says I can't meet tonight.
Then I said let's meet tomorrow at 16:00. She agrees.
Ended up meeting her at 18:00 instead.
Met her and on my way home I decided to go for a walk in the park first. She says she has to go home at 21:00. We go back to my car and head home quickly. I told her I ran out of condoms. We went to Shoppers to buy a box of 24 ($19+Tax).
Arrived home and fade to black. She has nice titties.
 
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2nd Date. She says she would meet me at the train station near my apt, on the way to train station she texts me and says she is drivong instead, she asked where can she park. I told her there is no spots available. She managed to park the car. I met her downstairs and we walk back to my apt. She asked where are we going today. I said nowhere I would just f u, I said.
 

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I'm going to start writing down about my dates until I get a notch again. It's been pretty slow for me in 2020, first reason is I didn't go out as much and when I go out I'm not focus as much as before, secondly, covid19, the traffic in the shopping malls is slow, and roads were dead. But slowly the lockdown is getting lift off.

I had an Instant Date with a nerdy Colombian girl today. Push Pull routine opener, cold read about her origin. She was receptive as she started to play with her hair. I then used false time constraint, started to build a deep connection, and moved to the qualification stage. Every routine I put out she took it well. I told her I'm going to grab a coffee while I wait for my friend, asked if she wants to come, she happily accepted. I grabbed a coffee but she did not, she told me she doesn't want to have a coffee at 18:00 cause it will upset her stomach. I have my coffee and we head out to sit by the fountain, started to build more deep connection. I did not use push pull, did no qualified her and did not kino on the IDate because I have eczema on my hand and I was a little self conscious (sigh). We sat and talked for 30 minutes, I got her number but I believe she was not too impressed compared to the initial approach. Then I proceed to tell her about my favorite lake, but failed to venue changed. She left to buy her groceries.


Missing routines on my IDate:
- Qualification
- Push pull
 

suavesuave

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While waiting for my wingman I started to CA first. I was on the upper floor of the mall walking towards the food court. I saw her walking towards me, she had silky black hair and was wearing a mask, I'm not sure how her face look like. I didn't hesitate and talked to her.
I opened with a push pull routine, and followed with a cold read and disqualification about her accent and origin, told her we are not going to get along and that I prefer Korean girls. Used cold read about her job and threw a hook to see if she bites. I think I also did FTC here, can't remember well. I started to build deep connection with her (basically asking her about her hobbies and her job, why she likes it, how long shes been doing it for, etc) and proceed with qualifications stage, told her I like going to the beach and places that has water and told her why.
I asked her what is she doing and told her I'm going to grab a coffee and if she wanted to join, she said NO and then I changed the topic and started to talk to her more and asked her again, then she accepted. We grab coffee and look for a place to sit, she took off her mask and she looks prettier than I expected. I started to build more deep connection and attraction for around 25 to 30 minutes, I usually take only 15 or 20 minutes. I told her it stopped raining let's go to xyz Mall. We we are walking together, I noticed she walks fast and I made fun of her walk, I wanted to grab her hand but I felt it was not the right moment yet, so I decided not to. We walked for a bit and tried to go to the park but it started to rain and that ruined my plans. She took out her umbrella and I quickly grabbed it, this gave me a chance to move even closer to her, I felt like she was not ready to get some close physical contact yet, so I didn't try to push it. I just held the umbrella for us like a gentleman (chivalry is not dead). She asked me what I'm going to do now (Good sign she was DTF), I said I'm going back to the mall. She says she is going home. Logistics was bad because of the rain. I'm sure I could have take it further and I felt she was a potential SDL. She already texted me back. I Will keep you posted about this one.


PROS:
Built deep connection (She told me about her personality, her family, her job and her friends)
Built attraction (She questioned me a lot)


CONS:
Not that I'm aware of.
 

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On Sunday I was decided to go get me 5 numbers for sure. Went out with energy and confidence in the morning eventually started to lose it as I saw a few 7,8,9 but hesitated to approach. Man I'm so upset with myself now.
Hey bro you got drive. That's good.
I found it less stress full to focus on just the convo rather then the number or close
 

suavesuave

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I was supposed to have a date with HB_Black but I messed up my texting and she disqualified me. I meet my wingman and start gaming instead. I see her in beauty store and I line up to get in. Lets call her HB_Skin. I opened with "Are you good with skin products", she starts to talk, I cold read and throw some hooks. She is engaged in the convo. We head to the coffee shop, grab coffee and we sit somewhere near. Talk for another 20 minutes, and we head to the small park, then suggested to head to the lake. We arrive to the lake, walk and talk for 20 minutes. I physically escalate but no luck. She says only if we are bf/gf and that she was not looking for a bf now. I tried disqualifying myself saying I would be a bad bf but it did not make any difference. Took her back to the place I met her and she asked for my name. I didnt bother to ask for hers, and we both left.

CONS:
Escalated too slowly.
She was talking too much. Did not let me execute my routines properly.

PROS:
I guess I got an IDate instead of a Date.
 

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I saw her browsing the clothing section and I open her with "It looks like your favorite color is purple". Let's call her HB_Winners. Talked to her for 10 minutes (DHV, push pull, qualificaiton, teasing, established man to woman relationship) and convinced her to go to the coffee shop. Asked her what she likes about me, she says I was friendly. We Grabbed coffee and sat by the fountain. Built rapport, made her qualified herself. We go to the park, we talked about my vulnerabilities. Now we are happily holding hands and head to the small shopping mall. I use timeline two or three times and established man to woman relationship again and I asked one more time "what she likes about me". I think she said I was friendly and fun to talk to. Tried to do one more venue change before taking her home but she says she has to go home to have dinner. I told her OK and walk back to the place I met her. Grabbed her number and set up a time to meet again. She was petite, and cute, she likes drinking, and I called her a troublemaker.

PROS:
Got her invested
Executed several push pull routines
I DHV myself
Show vulnerabilities
Used timeline
Vacuum technique
Hook

CONS:
Connection was not as deep
Disqualified myself but she did not pass (She answers I don't know)
Should have told her we can have dinner at my place
 

nicksaiz65

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IDate

I saw her browsing the clothing section and I open her with "It looks like your favorite color is purple". Let's call her HB_Winners. Talked to her for 10 minutes (DHV, push pull, qualificaiton, teasing, established man to woman relationship) and convinced her to go to the coffee shop. Asked her what she likes about me, she says I was friendly. We Grabbed coffee and sat by the fountain. Built rapport, made her qualified herself. We go to the park, we talked about my vulnerabilities. Now we are happily holding hands and head to the small shopping mall. I use timeline two or three times and established man to woman relationship again and I asked one more time "what she likes about me". I think she said I was friendly and fun to talk to. Tried to do one more venue change before taking her home but she says she has to go home to have dinner. I told her OK and walk back to the place I met her. Grabbed her number and set up a time to meet again. She was petite, and cute, she likes drinking, and I called her a troublemaker.

PROS:
Got her invested
Executed several push pull routines
I DHV myself
Show vulnerabilities
Used timeline
Vacuum technique
Hook

CONS:
Connection was not as deep
Disqualified myself but she did not pass (She answers I don't know)
Should have told her we can have dinner at my place
I like how you're still doing approaches during quarantine! I should've done some at Walmart today. But I'll be doing my Daygame right there beside you over this pandemic.
 

suavesuave

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Let's call her hb_doctor. Same structure as the previous IDate. We grab coffee and we go to the fountain where I usually sit, but it's sealed and we are not allowed to sit on it. Fantastic time to be closed! I told her let's just walk around the mal, we head upstairs and sit by the shopping cart bar, but it was hurting my butt. I saw a bench near Starbucks but it says "Not allowed to sit", we sat on it anyway. I said to her it stopped raining let's go outside to see, it was still drizzling so I decided not to go to my favorite small park. I quickly had to come up with a different idea, I told her to go to the lake. We arrived to the lake and she is happily holding my hand, we walk around, and we took some pictures but it started to rain. We go somewhere to find cover and we chat more. She says she wanted to leave. I said I will take her back to the place I met her. I texted her 3 hours later, no reply yet.


PROS:
Got her invested
Executed several push pull routines
I DHV myself
Show vulnerabilities
Used timeline
Vacuum technique
Hook
She says she likes me because I have patience

CONS:
Should have invited her to my place when I had the chance before she said she wanted to go.
 
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