"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Repeated Flake

phil2015

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Hi guys,

Got a little problem with a HB6/7 I've been dating about a month.

Everything seems to be going okay, but problem is she has a tendancy to flake and cancel dates on me. It has happened about 5-6 times in last 2 weeks. Range of excuses, child's I'll, has to babysit somewhere, snow, feel I'll etc

Problem is, she seems interested, texts me a lit, fcks on demand, calls me a lot etc and I'm wondering how can a girl Exhibiting high IL, simultaneously cancel/flake so much??

Two extremely contrasting behavioural streaks....

I believe I should go off what she does, rather than says, and whilst I'm not feeling anything untoward, I do feel my gut is telling me something is not legit.

Any advice, no matter how brutal is welcome.

Regards

Phil
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Building_and_Loan

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5-6 times in the last two weeks? That's an awful lot of times. First month of dating you should only be seeing each like once or twice a week anyway.
 

Harry Wilmington

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She's got a kid? Ewwww - been there, done that, single moms are ALWAYS having something come up with the kid. Whether or not it's true or an excuse, the outcome is the same: lots of last minute flakes, and not generally worth your time.
 

Mr_Maximus

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You have over extended yourself by giving her way too many chances bro.

maybe her interest level is dropping.

forget about her, until she contacts you or just next her. That's poor behavior.
 

sylvester the cat

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Unlike singletons, this is the nature of dating a woman with a child. The child will always come first (unless she's a future Jeremy Kyle contestant).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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just next her, she has no right to be acting like a princess when her value is so low
 

Peña

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Never let no woman repeatedly flake. Don't be no fool.
 

VladPatton

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Why are you waiting around for her? She's got a kid whose problems will always come before you 100% of the time. Single mothers are for rich beta providers who want an instant family. Tell her to call you when she wants to bang. Till then, seek other females....single ones!
 

salinechow

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This is a simple arithmetic

HB6+child(at 21?)-you= your happiness.
 

Albatross953

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You need to finish the second half of "pump and dump".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zarky

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phil2015 said:
Got a little problem with a HB6/7 I've been dating about a month.
Your problem actually seems to be that there's a lack of other women you're currently f*cking. Fix that and this "problem" will fix itself.
 

SAYNO

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Albatross953 said:
You need to finish the second half of "pump and dump".
LMFAO!!!
 
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