I just barely had a run in with a very annoying kid at school. I had seriously injured my backside(possibly broke my tailbone or something else)tubing the night before, and this kid came up when I was laying down, despite various warnings from my friends and kicked me right in my injury. So I freaked out got up and punched him a few times. (I was in a lot of pain and on paid meds) and then I left outside, and ditched the next period and went home to sleep. The kid isn't very well liked and people know me as an easy going guy who is not easily provoked. So would this hurt my rep at school at all? Would it have negative effects or maybe even positive effects?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rock_Solid
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Probably won't really effect your rep, people will be talking about it on Monday though.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Shouldn't effect it too much. He was trying to AMOG you as he knew about your injury. Most likely people will think he was being a prick and side with you.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
It was being an immature lil douche, but it was also trying to out-alpha him. Looks like it backfired on the lil **** though.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
forget it..
You'll waste a lot of time and energy on why it did and on whiom all it did..etc..
Forget it , just forget it....
Move on as if nothing happened..
You'll waste a lot of time and energy on why it did and on whiom all it did..etc..
Forget it , just forget it....
Move on as if nothing happened..
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
shoulda curb-stomped him.
no, it will tell people that u dont take **** from people.
no, it will tell people that u dont take **** from people.
Kev07
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why the hell would he just come out of nowhere to kick you in your injury?
after you answer that, i would have beat the kids ass too
after you answer that, i would have beat the kids ass too
Hey, thanks guys, it's good to know that it really won't affect much. And I like the forget about it idea. The reason he kicked me too is that I was laying down and he likes to annoy me so he came up and kicked me when I was sleeping, and right as I heard his voice I knew exactly who had woken me up. My friends were pretty worried about me freakin out but I smoothed that over. And maybe people talking about it on monday will be a good thing who knows. They would probably side with me even if I was in the wrong too, because people generally like me and if they hate me it is for no reason like the kid who kicked me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The challenger
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i think its a positive thing. ppl will find out u no how to stick up forurself and u were totally in the right in this situation.
just make sure u act non-chalant though, braggers are lame
just make sure u act non-chalant though, braggers are lame
My back is going to be fine, and my tailbone is feeling a bit better. I actually had the kids "friends" come up to me today and tell me that sometimes they are looking for an excuse to punch him sometimes too. And I will have no problem with the modesty thing, I don't say much anyway and I certainly don't brag.