"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Renaming her in your phone contacts; flakes.

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Have you ever renamed a chick in your phone contacts something like
###FLAKE###
###STOP TALKING TO HER###
###Expletive Redacted###
etc?

or something along those lines to help you remember not to contact her or how you left it off? well, i did. and then i made the mistake of accidentally emailing her the chat history from our blackberry messenger conversation. so she got an email that showed every line of her messages beginning with ###FLAKE### before her name. Hahahahaa.

She just replied with "??????"

I replied that it was "kind of embarrassing but kind of funny" and that I used that to remind myself that I thought she was flaking and that I shouldn't ask her to hang out. We'll see what happens, but I kind of feel better about it and am laughing.

Moral of the story: if you rename a chick in your contacts, don't email her from your phone because it could show that title in the email.

Good luck out there this weekend.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My question is: How do you even have the email address of this "flake" to even screw-up like that?
 
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Haha...we've been dating since october...ons to start in august.
We never email. Only bbm or phone.
 
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theres no reason to rename them...just DELETE them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Ha, Yeah, I've done that


"Do Not Call EVER" is my most favorite

Which reminds me, I need to put this girls middle name in my phonebook as "Drama"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just ****ing delete them. That takes way more balls.
 
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