"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Renaming her in your phone contacts; flakes.

Yachtie

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Have you ever renamed a chick in your phone contacts something like
###FLAKE###
###STOP TALKING TO HER###
###Expletive Redacted###
etc?

or something along those lines to help you remember not to contact her or how you left it off? well, i did. and then i made the mistake of accidentally emailing her the chat history from our blackberry messenger conversation. so she got an email that showed every line of her messages beginning with ###FLAKE### before her name. Hahahahaa.

She just replied with "??????"

I replied that it was "kind of embarrassing but kind of funny" and that I used that to remind myself that I thought she was flaking and that I shouldn't ask her to hang out. We'll see what happens, but I kind of feel better about it and am laughing.

Moral of the story: if you rename a chick in your contacts, don't email her from your phone because it could show that title in the email.

Good luck out there this weekend.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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1 Bad Dude

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My question is: How do you even have the email address of this "flake" to even screw-up like that?
 

Yachtie

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Haha...we've been dating since october...ons to start in august.
We never email. Only bbm or phone.
 

J Roc

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theres no reason to rename them...just DELETE them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

WorkingDJ

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Ha, Yeah, I've done that


"Do Not Call EVER" is my most favorite

Which reminds me, I need to put this girls middle name in my phonebook as "Drama"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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blueline

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Just ****ing delete them. That takes way more balls.
 
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