"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Renaissance Man=Courtier=DJ

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Probably not news to some of you, but I thought I would try to bring things into perspective. I've always believed in the notion of the "Renaissance Man" or "courtier" as the ideal to aspire to as a man. Kinda stumbled upon this when doing some humanities homework.

Baldassare Castiglione, wrote The Courtier in which he discusses many ideals, the main being his notion of the "courtier." ..."the true courtier should be a person of humanist learning, impeccable ethics, refined courtesy, physical and martial skills, and fascinating conversation. He should not possess any of these qualities to the detriment of any other."

Pretty much the DJ idea, right? Granted, skills with women aren't mentioned, because when he wrote The Courtier it was in the 16th century and men acted like men.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jim Morrison was a renaissance man.

Aleister Crowley was a renaissance man.

I don't think I'd lump any sissy mary who wore breaches and a tudor hat a renaissance man.
 

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Isn't a "coutier" considered someone who looks for favortism by using insincere flattery?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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..."the true courtier should be a person of humanist learning, impeccable ethics, refined courtesy, physical and martial skills, and fascinating conversation.
Sounds like me.

I like it.

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