"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Remove Facial Fatness

Blaster

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Is there a way to remove facial fatness?

I've heard people say that you have to lose everything at once (e.g. you can't just lose from the face).

I'm doing weight training right now, so I'm in the "bulking up" process. I'm afarid that all this bulking up is making my face fatter and fatter.

Thanx 4 any advice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Saine

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... no such thing as spot reduction...

You can only lose it all. I don't think you should bulk if you have a "fat face". Hm...
Why don't you tell us your stat?
You might have a problem if you're skinny but have a fat face.
 

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I want that "hollow cheek" look that a lot of people with non-facial fat have.

OK, my stats..Hmm. Alright I'm about 5'10, and weigh 140 pounds. I'm not Arnold schwarzenegger, but I'm not a starving third world refugee either. I'd say somewhere in the middle. I have defined pecks and defined biceps. No pot belly. I'm not ripped or anything -- just defined. Oh, and I think I spend way too much time in front of the mirror.

I guess the "facial fatness" is genetics then?
 

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yea must be genetics then. As youre probably not fat if ure 140 at 5'10 I suggest u start bulking up. Thats the first step to become more attractive lol. And when u got as much muscle as you want start getting ripped...in other words loosing fat. You said your not ripped..but not fat or anythign either. After losing fat all over tho ure face will look "slimmer" or whateva too. I cant really tell if itll make ur face look much slimmer...maybe its mostly imagination u never know...I do know a girl tho who is slim but kinda looks like her cheeks are fat lol I know that sounds funny, but I guess a lotta ppl who look like that might really let it go to them and worry bout it all the time, but still that girl is pretty. Maybe its not even half as bad as u think and ull come to realize that when ure a lil older..u never know. But all in all Id suggest u start bulkin up and then afterwards cutting down (also because its easier to lose weight if ure muscular)

peace
 

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Damn genetics..

How long should I do the "bluking up" process for?

I'm eager to lose this chubbyness.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i used to be 6ft 205 (mostly fat)

after i started working out people whom i hadnt seen in a long time were saying how much more defined my chin and neck were

just stick with what you are doing and you will see proper results

ive never heard of anyone even having trobule with losing the small amount of fat that is there
 
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