"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Removal of Bra
- Thread starter Badladman
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Maybe, you wanna know how to get her to undress for you?
Also, as a cheeky move I walk past behind them and flick the bra open - but only do this if you have got to a certain point in game and it's usually fun if they have had a drink or two making them more open to such a move. You need to judge the time for this move well as it can back fire, but done well will lead to opening more than just her bra
after that embarrassing situation, i've usually just let them take it off, if you start kissing their tits an doing alot of foreplay, they can't wait to get it off.
Or just bite the bullet and break the clasps, that might give you an excuse to take her lingerie shopping
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
90% of them open in the back tho, but if you don't find the clip there while you're making out, just tell her to take the damn thing off herself. dont look like a fool trying to treasure hunt the thing. just say 'take your bra off' and she will comply if shes all hot and bothered making out with you
squirrels
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You have to understand how the mechanism works. Usually 2 or 3 hooks on one side that go into little loops on the other side.Badladman said:
Works like a chinese finger-trap. Push the two ends together. Then "lift and separate".
Or depending on her breast size and build, you could always cheat and pop 'em out without unhitching. :rock:
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
:rock:
You can always just lift the bra off like a shirt, you know. You don't HAVE to undo it. Pull the cups up so the bøøbs drop out the bottom and you're all clear to lift up and off.
Saves a lot of flailing around with arms, too, which is good for confined areas.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Practice until you get it right.
Otherwise just let her undo it. It's really no big deal.