"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
remembering names
- Thread starter nikko49
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TheEnergizer
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and if you do forget its no big deal you can just go 'um dammit haha sorry what was your name again? haha i can never remember names' or something like that. and then go 'i won't forget this time'. or something. thats what i did. not that it really matters, she wont hate you for it either way...
who knows maybe she'll think its cuz your so popular
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
Just play on it say something like i always forget names make sure you remind me every time i see you. And if she remembers to do it, it gives you guys a little "thing" and chicks just love these little "things"
For example i go on a bus i had this thing where i waved goodbye to this girl every time, one day i didn't and she was wondering why for ages, they hate it but they love it!
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Remembering her name is one of the most important things in the world. It is the sweetest thing in the world that a person can hear.
Dale Carnegie in his best selling classic "How to Win Friends and Influence People" had an entire chapter dedicated to remembering others names.
The other day, I was out on a date with a girls large group of friends. It was nine people including me, and I could call out each name without skipping a beat. This made such an impression on those other people and I got an approval from every girl that was there (which if anybody knows about girls and their best friends, you lose the best friend, you lose the girl 99% of the time).
Another time, I was dating my ex-gf of two years. I could sit there and rattle off all of her family, how they are related, and what they do for a living. The family was extremely upset when we broke up because I started off on the right foot by remembering their names.
Besides, you moan out another girls name during sex, your in trouble :box: and no, it won't lead to angry sex :yes:
In conclusion, remembering the girls names is one of the best things in the world that you can do
comic_relief
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
- Use the name three or four times right after hearing it.
- After she leaves or when she isn't looking at you, write it down three times as well.
- When you get her number, ask for her name as well so that you can type it as well.
best of luck,
comic_relief