"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
remembering names
- Thread starter nikko49
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TheEnergizer
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and if you do forget its no big deal you can just go 'um dammit haha sorry what was your name again? haha i can never remember names' or something like that. and then go 'i won't forget this time'. or something. thats what i did. not that it really matters, she wont hate you for it either way...
who knows maybe she'll think its cuz your so popular
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
Just play on it say something like i always forget names make sure you remind me every time i see you. And if she remembers to do it, it gives you guys a little "thing" and chicks just love these little "things"
For example i go on a bus i had this thing where i waved goodbye to this girl every time, one day i didn't and she was wondering why for ages, they hate it but they love it!
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Remembering her name is one of the most important things in the world. It is the sweetest thing in the world that a person can hear.
Dale Carnegie in his best selling classic "How to Win Friends and Influence People" had an entire chapter dedicated to remembering others names.
The other day, I was out on a date with a girls large group of friends. It was nine people including me, and I could call out each name without skipping a beat. This made such an impression on those other people and I got an approval from every girl that was there (which if anybody knows about girls and their best friends, you lose the best friend, you lose the girl 99% of the time).
Another time, I was dating my ex-gf of two years. I could sit there and rattle off all of her family, how they are related, and what they do for a living. The family was extremely upset when we broke up because I started off on the right foot by remembering their names.
Besides, you moan out another girls name during sex, your in trouble :box: and no, it won't lead to angry sex :yes:
In conclusion, remembering the girls names is one of the best things in the world that you can do
comic_relief
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
- Use the name three or four times right after hearing it.
- After she leaves or when she isn't looking at you, write it down three times as well.
- When you get her number, ask for her name as well so that you can type it as well.
best of luck,
comic_relief