"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
remembering names
- Thread starter nikko49
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
TheEnergizer
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and if you do forget its no big deal you can just go 'um dammit haha sorry what was your name again? haha i can never remember names' or something like that. and then go 'i won't forget this time'. or something. thats what i did. not that it really matters, she wont hate you for it either way...
who knows maybe she'll think its cuz your so popular
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
Just play on it say something like i always forget names make sure you remind me every time i see you. And if she remembers to do it, it gives you guys a little "thing" and chicks just love these little "things"
For example i go on a bus i had this thing where i waved goodbye to this girl every time, one day i didn't and she was wondering why for ages, they hate it but they love it!
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Remembering her name is one of the most important things in the world. It is the sweetest thing in the world that a person can hear.
Dale Carnegie in his best selling classic "How to Win Friends and Influence People" had an entire chapter dedicated to remembering others names.
The other day, I was out on a date with a girls large group of friends. It was nine people including me, and I could call out each name without skipping a beat. This made such an impression on those other people and I got an approval from every girl that was there (which if anybody knows about girls and their best friends, you lose the best friend, you lose the girl 99% of the time).
Another time, I was dating my ex-gf of two years. I could sit there and rattle off all of her family, how they are related, and what they do for a living. The family was extremely upset when we broke up because I started off on the right foot by remembering their names.
Besides, you moan out another girls name during sex, your in trouble :box: and no, it won't lead to angry sex :yes:
In conclusion, remembering the girls names is one of the best things in the world that you can do
comic_relief
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
- Use the name three or four times right after hearing it.
- After she leaves or when she isn't looking at you, write it down three times as well.
- When you get her number, ask for her name as well so that you can type it as well.
best of luck,
comic_relief