"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Remembering a chick's name?

josekortez

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For some reason, whether I'm sober or drunk, I can never remember a chick's name five minutes after she tells me. I think I've gotten to the point where I don't care about them so much that I barely listen or just don't commit their personal info to memory.

For instance, there was a girl I met last night that was named Lauren and I just kept calling her Marie. Hell, she looked like a Marie to me. She still gave me the digits, though...:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Borgon

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I have the same problem, try repeating her name when she tells you, and say it like 2-3 times after in the conversation. Dont over do it because ull like like a wierdo. If she is really worth it i try to remember but other times am just like f it
 

spiker

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same problem here mate!
Think its because my brain is just tuned in to ask the question 'what is ur name' and really I dont give a f**k what the answer is so never end up actually listening
 

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Attempt to remember the best you can....women are turned off when guys can't remember her name....Limit, you can forget once....then write it down...and attempt to remember it.
 

ougoalie

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"For instance, there was a girl I met last night that was named Lauren and I just kept calling her Marie. Hell, she looked like a Marie to me. She still gave me the digits, though..."

That is hilarious sh**. Yea who cares what their names are as long as you get the necessary information. A name doesn't really matter in the end because most of the time it won't be remembered more than 5 seconds and in my case about 2...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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brosnake

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Remember names has been an issue for me forever. I meet so many people in a night they all kinda blend together. This is especially true at house parties.

Last night I was at a house party and instead of asking for the chicks name and forgetting it seconds later I would just make up a nickname for the chick right on the spot. An example to illustrate:

I was walking out of my car and into the party when I encounter two chicks smoking outside. One is puffing and shivering and they are both kinda huddled next to each other.

Hero: Wuttup, you guys look cold.
HB: We are!
Hero: Well there's a hot and funky smelling house like 10 feet away.
HB: We are just finishing our cigs, we will be in soon.
Hero: Cool.

20 minutes later I see the same two chicks in the backyard. They are still cold. Two other dudes are trying to chat them up. They are laughing a flirting a bit.

Hero: Hey is the Cold Girls! You haven't found a jacket yet huh?
(HBs turn around and greet me. Dudes look a little perturbed.)
HB: No! (laughter)
Hero: Wait isn't Cold Girls the name of a band or something?
HBs: UMmmmm I dunno!
(blah blah blah)
 
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