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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Remembering a chick's name?

josekortez

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For some reason, whether I'm sober or drunk, I can never remember a chick's name five minutes after she tells me. I think I've gotten to the point where I don't care about them so much that I barely listen or just don't commit their personal info to memory.

For instance, there was a girl I met last night that was named Lauren and I just kept calling her Marie. Hell, she looked like a Marie to me. She still gave me the digits, though...:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Borgon

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I have the same problem, try repeating her name when she tells you, and say it like 2-3 times after in the conversation. Dont over do it because ull like like a wierdo. If she is really worth it i try to remember but other times am just like f it
 

spiker

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same problem here mate!
Think its because my brain is just tuned in to ask the question 'what is ur name' and really I dont give a f**k what the answer is so never end up actually listening
 

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Attempt to remember the best you can....women are turned off when guys can't remember her name....Limit, you can forget once....then write it down...and attempt to remember it.
 

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"For instance, there was a girl I met last night that was named Lauren and I just kept calling her Marie. Hell, she looked like a Marie to me. She still gave me the digits, though..."

That is hilarious sh**. Yea who cares what their names are as long as you get the necessary information. A name doesn't really matter in the end because most of the time it won't be remembered more than 5 seconds and in my case about 2...
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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brosnake

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Remember names has been an issue for me forever. I meet so many people in a night they all kinda blend together. This is especially true at house parties.

Last night I was at a house party and instead of asking for the chicks name and forgetting it seconds later I would just make up a nickname for the chick right on the spot. An example to illustrate:

I was walking out of my car and into the party when I encounter two chicks smoking outside. One is puffing and shivering and they are both kinda huddled next to each other.

Hero: Wuttup, you guys look cold.
HB: We are!
Hero: Well there's a hot and funky smelling house like 10 feet away.
HB: We are just finishing our cigs, we will be in soon.
Hero: Cool.

20 minutes later I see the same two chicks in the backyard. They are still cold. Two other dudes are trying to chat them up. They are laughing a flirting a bit.

Hero: Hey is the Cold Girls! You haven't found a jacket yet huh?
(HBs turn around and greet me. Dudes look a little perturbed.)
HB: No! (laughter)
Hero: Wait isn't Cold Girls the name of a band or something?
HBs: UMmmmm I dunno!
(blah blah blah)
 
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