"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Remember my AFC rampage? Revenge is sweet

TheGambino

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I ran intoo my former oneitis from last weeks rampage story with the bday girl in the club.

Bday girl started talking to me heeey gambino
Heaven happened couldnt played out better.

Smirked and ignored my former oneitis pulled Her away after seeing my minimal reaction.

Enjoyed my night hit on girls and They were checking me dancing in front of me staying next to me. Enjoyed, danced had fun and ignored them All night not even a word.

Danced and hit on 5 or 6 girls in front of them

Only small smiles twice.

Two of my plates came in and one made out with me for an hour having fun in front of them They were going Crazy trying to get my attention and checked me out All night. Lots or f friends were there that came to Greet me so social proof was level 90000.

How did I play This?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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you tell us all the awesome things you did and then asked how you played it?
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You danced with 5-6 girls, hooked up with two plates in-front of a girl who you supposedly still call your oneitis?
 
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