"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So i just got from this club tonight and might i say it was very packed....my friend was working the door so another night of no line (and it was a 30 min waiting line) no cover with VIP....i usually go in with this nonchalant vibe and might i say it usually didnt work out...

this time was a little different...

I decided to go in and act like i was having the time of my life...smiling...dancing....having a good time...with a Great Attitude...as a Result numerous women i've seen many times in this club and around the city where interested more than usual asking me "hey wassup? why are you so happy?" I just smiled and said "Im having a great time"...I actually ended up passing on a number i should have gotten but didnt want...she was a little below my standards and im not desperate like the old AFC days...a Couple 7s and maybe one 8 was looking my way no 9s are 10s im shooting for those this summer...

Key to the story is check your attitude...usually when you feel good you can rub that off on the woman your going after...weak attitude gets a weak response...weird vibes get weird responses (rejection)..:kick:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Great realization dude. Looks to me like you found gold.

Did you notice how "acting like you're having a great time" esaily becomes "having a great time"?
 

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Pure genius!

...go into a club with a positive attitude...but not have the balls to approach any of the girls looking at you, then give away the only number you got to some other dude so he could bang her instead.

Sorry mate, agree with your thread title, but you need a better example than that!
 

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she was a little below my standards and im not desperate like the old AFC days...a Couple 7s and maybe one 8 was looking my way no 9s are 10s im shooting for those this summer...
This is so often an excuse to not score. I mean, what's so desperate about ending the night with the pretty girl next door? Don't turn sarging into an audition for America's next top model. That's taking it way too seriously.
 

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nahh u guys don't get it...see you dont have to go to the club aiming to score all the time...no excuse because i've done this a thousand times before it's nothing to get a girl like that...i had class in the morning and just wanted to hang out with my friends and grind on a few chicks and conversate with a few...i'll see most of them again lmao!...

Remember Attitude is Key...and you dont always have to number close...

P.S. i was dancing on mutliple chicks all night including the girl who wanted to talk to me...just test driving with no intentions...just plan fun....it's good when you have and LOOK like you have the option to say no....thats how you get more numbers...i did what i came out to do last night...Turn some heads my way...and have fun...and adopt a new social attitude...next time i'll go for more...Patience my friends...patience
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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runner83 said:
Pure genius!

...go into a club with a positive attitude...but not have the balls to approach any of the girls looking at you, then give away the only number you got to some other dude so he could bang her instead.

Sorry mate, agree with your thread title, but you need a better example than that!

nahh i'll pass he can have her...i've got plenty of other options....seeing one later tonight :rolleyes: Jumping the gun always gets unwanted results plus i wasn't feeling her so i wasn't really worried too much about it...dudes on here always take what they can get....i take what i want...when i want it....like a man (donjuan) should...
 
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